Topic: Forgiving and moving on...
Member # 41347
| Posted: 7:03 PM, January 10th (Friday), 2014|
I told my WW I am forgiving her and moving on...meaning I am detaching from her and I am not going to waste the energy spying on her. The last thing I am going to do is make another request for texts from our phone company, check to see if there are any numbers appearing multiple times that shouldn't be and just going on from there.
If she wanted to be back in this marriage, she would be doing it...not me. I am checking out.
ME: BH/30, HER: WW/28 DD: 3
Dday1 = 10/26/2013 ***confessed because she got caught by OMW***
Dday2 = 12/3/2013 ***Confessed she had sex with a former co-worker in between LTA***
For jealousy arouses a husband's fury, and he will show no mercy
Posts: 386 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Maryland
Member # 35619
| Posted: 8:04 PM, January 10th (Friday), 2014|
Agree with everything except the request for the records. If you're moving forward with truly detaching then don't ask for then unless you require them for legal reasons
D final 8/2012
Posts: 3307 | Registered: May 2012 | From: southeast
Member # 30853
| Posted: 8:07 PM, January 10th (Friday), 2014|
I'm sorry that she's not fighting to save your marriage, but I'm glad you are now fighting to save yourself. There sometimes comes a point when there is no choice but to throw up the white flag and move forward.
BW - me
ExWH - "that one"
D - 2011
You get what you put in, and people get what they deserve.
Hard as it may be, try to never give the OP any of your power or head space.
Posts: 2404 | Registered: Jan 2011
Member # 41432
| Posted: 8:15 PM, January 10th (Friday), 2014|
Cheers to you Samurai, I will pour you a scotch tonight so you can join me. Definitely a moment when you see the picture in front of you.
ME (29) - BS
Her (29) - STBXWW
Dday - 10/25/2013
Married - 7/2007
Been Together - 9/2003
Posts: 83 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Midwest
Member # 41873
| Posted: 8:32 PM, January 10th (Friday), 2014|
Very sorry to hear, LostSamurai.
Thinking good thoughts for you.
Me: FWH, 34
Her: BS, 33
Married: 6 years
Together: 10+ years
Kids: 2 Boys under 5
DDay1: 7+ years ago
DDay2: 1.5 years ago
"The truth shall set you free, but first it will make you miserable."
Posts: 57 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: United States
Member # 41761
| Posted: 10:07 PM, January 10th (Friday), 2014|
Glad you're standing up for yourself!
wishing you some piece tonight...
Always know if the juice is worth the squeeze...
Together 7 years
DDay: June 24, 2013
Posts: 184 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
Member # 41745
| Posted: 10:33 PM, January 10th (Friday), 2014|
I think thats big of you...me too Im getting to the point where it is just getting too exhausting and need peace...its a great step and hope it elevates you
Him: WH... SURPRISE!
Me: baby making last name taking object aka BS
M: 9 yrs dated 2 yrs engaged 1
Known him:?! yrs
D Day: 5 mo don't want to put TMI you never know if homewrecking sith whores are stalking jedis 1000 times more classy
Posts: 151 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Dante's Inferno
Member # 41927
| Posted: 12:23 AM, January 11th (Saturday), 2014|
I will never forgive my wife. Ever. For what she did and how she went about it. Im 9 months from d-day, separated, and headed for divorce.
She destroyed our future. She destroyed the last 14 years together. She destroyed my son's family.
I will carry this to my grave. Its horrible.
BH: 35 (me)
Affair: one year 2012
D-day #1 March 2012
D-day #2 April 2012
Limbo for 7 months of hell
Headed to D
I hope he was worth destroying what we had built over 14 years.
Posts: 114 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Tampa Florida
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