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User Topic: Triggery movies
Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 8:56 AM, January 13th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Silver Linings Playbook
Hell, the commercial about the movie was not good trigger-wise for me.


xBH
D final 8/2012

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Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 11:47 PM, January 13th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Take This Waltz


xBH
D final 8/2012

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silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 5:34 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Forgot to mention talhotblond Wrong in so many ways aside from infidelity, but I still spent the whole film wondering how his wife must have felt.

[This message edited by silverhopes at 5:36 PM, January 14th (Tuesday)]


Find peace. Or sleep on it.

Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.


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heartbroken303
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Default  Posted: 4:15 PM, January 15th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Another triggery show for me is "The Bachelor" and "The Bachelorette"

It's cold here now, so I run on a treadmill in our basement (boring) and watch TV. I didn't used to mind those two shows, but now they just plain piss me off. Sure these in-DUH-viduals put themselves in these situations, but they all fall for one insipid person who then whines like a baby that they have to get rid of somebody and they're so in love, etc. Then once that person is ditched, it's PARTY-ON while the rejected person rides away bawling.


Me (BS) 42
Her (WS) 41
DD #1 October 31, 2013 She admits to on-line emotional affair.
DD #2 November 27, 2013 She admits to sexual affair the previous weekend.
Married 17 years, together for 23 years-2DDs
OM - Married coward with children

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Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 5:04 PM, January 16th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tinker, Tailor, Soldier, Spy
Mission Impossible
Presumed Innocent

...and those got added to the list just by scrolling through the channel guide just now!


xBH
D final 8/2012

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silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 10:36 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Watching The Matrix trilogy on TV right now - why didn't I remember the unfaithfulness in the second film?!! Haven't seen the third yet, but now vaguely remembering there was some in that one as well… Why?!


Find peace. Or sleep on it.

Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.


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Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 10:46 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, I forgot about that too.

HBO's new mini-series True Detective was trigger-city tonight and promises many visits to trigger-city before its done.

As I previously said what bothers me is when cheating is treated so callously. The BS is blamed and expected to "just get over it". The A is treated as romantic.


xBH
D final 8/2012

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silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 10:57 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As I previously said what bothers me is when cheating is treated so callously. The BS is blamed and expected to "just get over it". The A is treated as romantic.

So true!


Find peace. Or sleep on it.

Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.


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NWfleur
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Default  Posted: 12:42 AM, January 20th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

MAD MEN.

Hate that show.
My exwh is in advertising. Literally same job title as Don Draper. And that show NAILS IT in terms of the culture of that career. I remember he always wanted to watch it, probably some narcissistic fulfillment for him, little did I know how much of what I was watching was happening right under my own nose!

[This message edited by NWfleur at 12:42 AM, January 20th (Monday)]


Me BS (39)
Him WS (36)
2 DS
M: 9 years (together 13)
DD: 4/10/2012
(Separated since 12/11...affair began ??!!)

Divorced!!!


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absolut
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Default  Posted: 1:46 AM, January 20th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

haven't gone through the whole thread but has someone already said

500 Days of Summer

especially bc people say I look like that girl.

Nothing about infidelity just being reckless with someone's heart is somehow whimsical.


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Vulcanized
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Default  Posted: 4:45 AM, January 20th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So very many. XH works in film.

Came home from work a few weeks ago, flipped on t.v. & the movie that was on was the one he started w/OW. ARGHHHH. Mind you, we had props from that one in our house.

XH works on major movies, so ... so many make me want to puke.


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
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Everything is as it should be.

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brokensoul75
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Default  Posted: 10:11 AM, January 20th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had to shut off the TV the other night. I was watching one of the late shows and there was a comedian, who started off pretty funny, until he started cracking jokes about cheating and how it was ok to have a "good" one and a "fun" one.



You may not realize it when it happens, but a kick in the teeth may be the best thing in the world for you. ~Walt Disney

We must embrace pain and burn it as fuel for our journey. ~Kenji Miyazawa


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Dyinghere
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Default  Posted: 11:37 AM, January 20th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was watching The Incredibles and got all mad. He sneaks around and lies to his wife and does whatever the hell feels good regardless of the consequences for his family. He leaves his wife to deal with the kids while she is asking for his help just so he can feel like a superhero again. Selfish prick.




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Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 11:42 AM, January 20th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, but he did admit he was wrong...and he didn't try to cope with issues by cheating. He coped with his issues by being a super-hero. Hey!!! Why didn't I have that option when I had my ddays???


xBH
D final 8/2012

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totalheartbreak
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Default  Posted: 8:06 PM, January 20th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WW suggested we go see The Princess Bride as they were doing the classics on the silver screen series at the local cinema...

At first I was like, ROUS's on the big screen!?! Of course...

And then I realized... huh, a movie about a boy/man who travels the world and risks everything to chase a girl who doesn't even care he exists and then at the last possible moment realizes oops it was him all along and they live happily ever after even though he nearly is killed and horribly injured, etc.... all the while, it is literally a fairytale being told to some sick albeit optimistic young boy.

How 'bout no... You're damn right it's too triggery... it's my life, with a fairytale happy ending.

[This message edited by totalheartbreak at 8:07 PM, January 20th (Monday)]


Me: BH (30s)
Wayflost: WW (30s)
"Ever notice those that advocate anything for 'happiness' are perennially unhappy?"

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3yrwait
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Default  Posted: 9:19 PM, January 20th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The Dilemma - I really should have read the synopsis before just assuming a Vince Vaugn/Kevin James movie would be funny.


Me: BH (early 40s)
Her: WW (early 40s)
Married 15 years
1 daughter, under 10
DDay July 2007

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Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 12:16 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Extract - Not sure how on earth they thought this was a comedy.


xBH
D final 8/2012

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womaninflux
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Default  Posted: 12:32 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't believe no one listed Unfaithful (Diane Lane, Richard Gere). Unless I missed it somewhere earlier in thread.

Wow…that has got to be a pretty trigger movie…all of the love scenes and the scenes were she is on the train and flash backing to being with her lover. And when the husband finds out she's been lying about where she's been spending time. And them taking all of those chances (in the bathroom at the restaurant with her friends).


BS - mid-40's
SAWH - mid 40's
Kids - 2 elementary school aged
Getting tons of therapy and trying to "work it out"

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Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 12:44 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

@womaninflux,
Wow...you're absolutely right. I thought Unfaithful had already been listed, but it wasn't.


xBH
D final 8/2012

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NikkiD
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Default  Posted: 12:49 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"The Rain" by Oran "Juice" Jones

YESS!! And that rant he goes into at the end!!! Classic!


"Spoil me with Loyalty; I can finance myself...."
ME: BS-33
HE: WS-32
Married 3 years, known 20
2 kids
D-Day #1 12/30/12
False Recovery
D-Day #2 1/21/14
LTA 5 years-ish
Riding the "Struggle Bus"
Living apart....

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