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User Topic: Triggery movies
NikkiD
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Default  Posted: 1:01 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Trigger shows are

Scandal and Being Mary Jane

I can stomach "the Haves and the Have Nots," simply because of the vile way the wife treats the AP's she knows about....


"Spoil me with Loyalty; I can finance myself...."
ME: BS-33
HE: WS-32
Married 3 years, known 20
2 kids
D-Day #1 12/30/12
False Recovery
D-Day #2 1/21/14
LTA 5 years-ish
Riding the "Struggle Bus"
Living apart....

Posts: 668 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Midwest
deena04
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Default  Posted: 1:08 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Crazy Stupid Love. I enjoyed that movie and get that they reunite at the end, but it is not the same anymore. The Notebook is one I love, but haven't watched it since D-Day, so who knows for me anymore.


Me BS mid-late 30s
Him WS knocking on 40 (lovemywife4ever)
blended family with lots of kiddos
together 5 years, married 8/13
D day 12/1/13
WH ONS had been 4/12
Getting ME back and moving to HAPPY - whatever that means
I want out!

Posts: 1065 | Registered: Dec 2013
prowoman
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Default  Posted: 1:09 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

American Hustle! UGH


me: BS 39 | stbxWH: 46
DD14, DS2
DDAY: Aug12... A continued "underground"
Separated Nov13 and Divorcing
OC Born May 14

Posts: 129 | Registered: Sep 2013
Lostinthismess
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Default  Posted: 1:10 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Turned on 'American horror story'. Little scary show, why not?? First 30 seconds wife walks in on husband screwing a student in their bed. Super fun. I was able to watch oddly enough. It was real. It wasn't glorified fantasy lurv... Shouldn't have watched it though, hubby almost came unglued and we haven't watch any more episodes.


'You just keep living, until you are alive again'
'I don't want perfect, I want honest'

Posts: 331 | Registered: May 2013
Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 1:11 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Unfaithful: Stories of Infidelity

I know, that seems ultra-obvious but it goes a little deeper. It's the way the present it. Most of the stories are of couples who stayed together (or remarried). What disgusted me was when the the MC would talk about the BS role in the A. It got a little blameshifty at times.


xBH
D final 8/2012

Posts: 3981 | Registered: May 2012 | From: southeast
Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 1:17 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Crazy Stupid Love. I enjoyed that movie and get that they reunite at the end, but it is not the same anymore.
I hated how the BH was supposed to "win back" the WW and the BH's friend tells him he is the reason his wife strayed.


xBH
D final 8/2012

Posts: 3981 | Registered: May 2012 | From: southeast
Kyrie
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Default  Posted: 1:42 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Started watching House of Cards and by the 2nd or 3rd episode, had to stop. Made me feel sick.


Me: BW (47), WH (48)
Married 24 yrs, 2 teenagers
DD#1 01.20.12 When diagnosed w/STD
Told it was 15 mo. PA that ended 6 years ago
DD#2 04.06.14 Truth: PA was 2yrs/8mo
Separated for 6 weeks
Reconciling and healing now

Posts: 201 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: southeast USA
Jduff
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Default  Posted: 1:59 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Forgetting Sarah Marshall is very triggery in the beginning. This is one my favorite comedies (before dday) and has become therapeutic after my dday because it makes me laugh. I had actually forgotten about this movie after my dday until I caught it on cable. It kicked started me out of my own BS fog.

I love the part where the Sarah character flashbacks to moments in their relationship when her ex, Peter, had put up with all her demands and she realizes he did so out of his love for her, and when Peter flashbacks to those similar moments and sees how she basically took him for granted. I laughed so hard when Sarah and Peter tried make-up sex and he couldn't "get it up", and she asks what's wrong with him, and then he responds - "...maybe the problem is that you broke my heart into a million pieces, and so my cock doesn't want want to be around you anymore! Ok? EVER!"

Look up "Forgetting Sarah Marshall scene "You're the goddamn devil!" on youtube to watch the scene.


Divorced - 5/23/14
Already in my New Beginning - :)

Posts: 551 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: texas
Ascendant
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Default  Posted: 2:19 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am actually watching "The Descendants" as we speak. For BS, I think it's a great movie... If you're far enough past DDAY.


I keep my mind on my future/and my eyes on the sky/I don't really smile much/If you were there you'd know why.

Posts: 2164 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: City in the Midwest/Best In The Whole Wide World
champ
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Default  Posted: 2:44 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Clint Eastwood is my favorite actor but I refuse to watch Bridges of Madison County

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NikkiD
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Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"I think I love my Wife..."


"Spoil me with Loyalty; I can finance myself...."
ME: BS-33
HE: WS-32
Married 3 years, known 20
2 kids
D-Day #1 12/30/12
False Recovery
D-Day #2 1/21/14
LTA 5 years-ish
Riding the "Struggle Bus"
Living apart....

Posts: 668 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Midwest
PippaPeach6
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Default  Posted: 4:06 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Someone to Watch Over Me with Tom Berenger and Mimi Rogers.

And I have never and will never watch "Bridges"


Us: 50ish, madhatters, married 20 odd yrs
TT: May 2009 'til June
DDay for both: June 17, 2009
Me: 2x, same person, 1991
Him: 1.5 year PA (EA?) 2007-2009
Reconciled

Honey Badger don't care. - Randall


Posts: 386 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Flyover chic
Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 4:55 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Unforgettable (1996)


xBH
D final 8/2012

Posts: 3981 | Registered: May 2012 | From: southeast
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:45 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just a heads up.

Labor Day

From what I read earlier today, it has 2 A related parts.


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gypsybird87
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Default  Posted: 8:35 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I read "The Great Gatsby" in high school but didn't remember much about it except that it was in the 20s or 30s or whatever... Went to see the new Leo DiCaprio version not long after dday.

OMG!! The entire movie is about infidelity, plus it has a very depressing ending. Really wished I had remembered the plot; I would not have gone!! Beautifully shot and costumed film, and Leo is great, but HUGE mistake to see it when I did.


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. ~ Anais Nin


Posts: 911 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
Kyrie
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Default  Posted: 9:12 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Saw The Wolf of Wall Street and was in a low funk for several days afterwards. It's not so much the confrontation scene with his wife over his A, which was hard to watch, but it's excessive in every way. People living with no morals, no scruples and no real consequences. I'm having enough trouble getting my mind around how separated my fWH got from his integrity - how dishonest and self serving he was. Seeing DiCaprio doing it on the big screen for 3 hours was more than I could take. Yuck.


Me: BW (47), WH (48)
Married 24 yrs, 2 teenagers
DD#1 01.20.12 When diagnosed w/STD
Told it was 15 mo. PA that ended 6 years ago
DD#2 04.06.14 Truth: PA was 2yrs/8mo
Separated for 6 weeks
Reconciling and healing now

Posts: 201 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: southeast USA
Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 9:12 PM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Another one!

The Signal

The freakin' movie starts with a WW leaving the OM's bed, who tries gives her a mix CD and tries to talk her into leaving her BH.


xBH
D final 8/2012

Posts: 3981 | Registered: May 2012 | From: southeast
silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 3:48 AM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

IIRC, "Schindler's List". In addition to the other truly heartbreaking things in the film.

"I will stay with you only if you promise, no one will ever mistake anyone but me for Mrs. Oskar Schindler."

Also, another TV show: was watching "Justice League" and "Justice League Unlimited". Seems like there wouldn't be as much infidelity in cartoons, right? Wrong. After what happened with "Batman Beyond", you'd think I would have learned.

[This message edited by silverhopes at 3:59 AM, February 11th (Tuesday)]


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

Posts: 3905 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
BAMAC
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Default  Posted: 12:49 PM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Don't watch The Campaign.


DDays - 1/26/2013 | 3/23/14
Divorced 7/10/2014

Posts: 84 | Registered: May 2013 | From: TX
silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 4:05 PM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can't remember if someone here wrote about "Rid of Me"? There's another one. Though the BS winds up much happier in the end, through her transformation process, and the WS and OP just look… lifeless. It was a very interesting contrast.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

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