Topic: Read this article and felt someone had interview me about my ex!
Member # 33062
| Posted: 3:00 PM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014|
This is a good read for anyone trying to figure out how to survive a divorce from, and co-parent with a Sociopath.
It's certainly not for the weak, and now I see all the times I've handled it incorrectly. I'm slowly learning he truly has no conscience, and he has no remorse or concern for how his behavior hurts these children or me. It's disturbing, but oh so true and spot on. These broken sociopaths will NEVER tell the truth, or admit fault. Ever. It's just the way it is.
My mission is to now make sure my children and I have the tools and knowledge to survive this monster. He will not change, but I will change the way I react and get the counseling we all need to heal from the abuse he has put us through.
Hope this will help someone out there!
Posts: 662 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 41837
| Posted: 6:03 PM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014|
Thank you for sharing this strongmama.
This explains my situation and what I'm going through EXACTLY! Minus the children thank God.
He is not who I thought I married and never was.
Honestly I don't know who the fuck he is. I keep finding more and more stuff about him. All he denies of course.
Glad he is 800 miles away, so glad!
Thank God the light bulb has finally went off in my head. I am divorcing this POS soon.
I fear he has broken me...but only temporary. But I doubt I will ever love or trust blindly again
Me- BS 44 Always faithfull
Him- WS 44
2 mo. EA/PA with 25 yr. old slut that stroked his ego, online profiles, CL ads
Married 8 years-No kids together
False R many different times fromJan/13 till Dec/13
Posts: 147 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Northern Indiana
Member # 41429
| Posted: 6:54 PM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014|
That was pretty spot on about what I am going through with my STBX.
Me: BW 30
Posts: 485 | Registered: Nov 2013
Member # 38735
| Posted: 8:27 PM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014|
Wow, I never really considered the Gnat a sociopath, but he fits a many parts of this. Just a few areas where he doesn't. It makes me re-consider how I deal with him.
BW - Me (37)
XWH - (37) The Gnat
OW - Some dumb whore he picked up in another state and moved here here. Known as Hello Kitty.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (5), 1 DS (1 year)
Posts: 809 | Registered: Mar 2013
Member # 39564
| Posted: 8:28 PM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014|
That describes my STBX to a tee but he's very subtle about it. He completely discarded me once I exposed his double life and never once fought to get me or the kids back. Never once did he say he'd do anything. He tried to flip everything back on me and it took me a while to realize I will never understand his crazy world because I'm just not built that way. Thank god for that.
Thanks for sharing strongmama.
Me (BS) 39 Him (WH, SA, covert NPD) 40
Married 8 years, 2 young kids
DD1-Right after engagement 2004
DD2-Email from OW 2008
DD3-2012-Him diagnosed with cancer, I thought we grew closer, he kept cheating.
Posts: 75 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Canada
Member # 27148
| Posted: 9:28 PM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014|
Wow...that is a great article. Thanks
Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†
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