Yes and No.
She was a b*tch to me immediately prior to her affair and kept it up so she could justify it. But eventually I broke through the fog (didn't know about A) and she started getting really nice. I think it was to make a silent amends of sorts. For a few weeks prior to DDay it was like our highschool days. I felt overjoyed to have this wonderful woman. She did some things for me she hadn't done in years.
Little did I know, she was texting and emailing him right under my nose.