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User Topic: Long Vent, Snow mountains, Ugly Coats and Fat People
Weatherly
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Default  Posted: 3:43 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Listen here fucker,

You and your 40 yr old gf, who you are so quick to remind me, at least monthly, “looks 16” do not get to make fun of our son about his weight. Sweat pants will not make him fat, unless he starts eating them. Which he might, since you assholes won’t let the boys ever have more than one helping of food a meal. Yeah, I mean, they only play sports and run around all day and grew 6 fucking inches in 6 months, they don’t need to eat much.

You do not get to fucking tell him that he doesn’t want to get “huge and fat like his mother.” His mother who he’s watched struggle to lose 25 pounds over the last 6 months. Probably all those fucking sweatpants I wear. You know, I have never desired so much before in my life to wear sweat pants every single time I see you. I think I might, but I don’t OWN ANY, so, I guess I need to go shopping.

You don’t get to down weight loss pills, while telling our kid he’s fat.

Why the fuck are you buying them each $50 coats for this winter, when they each already have 2, outgrow things as fast as I can buy them, AND, you are thousands behind in child support? Why are you bragging to them about spending $100 on coats for them? Oh yeah, so you can look like the good guy. I’m sure the boys will be so thrilled with those fucking coats that they can over look the fact you don’t have a room for them, a bed, any clothes or any toys because “they are too expensive”. Sorry to break the news to you dipshit, but their mental capacities surpassed yours 2 or 3 years ago, so they notice things don’t add up. And they are getting plenty pissed about it!

You are a complete and total asshole. They are 8 and 10 years old. I get it, they are giant kids, but they are still little boys and the last thing they need is your white trash girlfriend and her 4 letter word vocabulary shrieking at them for daring to play on the snow mountain their grandpa built for them over a WEEK. Damn you, it was a 15 foot high mountain, with a tunnel, an ice slide, and STAIRS. I know grown ass men who wouldn’t be able to resist playing on that. And you two shamed them for playing on it, because they got the clothes I packed for them, specifically to play on the mountain, wet, and that might get your truck seats wet.

You’re going to lose them. You already have lost ALL their respect. You’ve already lost them being excited about seeing you. You already have a 10 yr old talking about how he’s going to “stand up for himself” and his brother. Have fun asshole, it’s only a few more years before they outgrow you and won’t be afraid of you anymore. Only a few more years before they refuse to go with you anymore. But, you’ll probably be thrilled…you should get years of mileage out of playing the victim on that one.

Fuck you.


Me-29,Two boys, 10 and 8

It will all be ok in the end. If it's not ok, it's not the end

Happily remarried to a wonderful man (Aussie). I think I found the right guy and the right finger this time.


Posts: 4475 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: Indiana
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 4:22 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Weatherly's boys))))) It bears repeating that he is a complete waste of carbon and an embarrassment to humankind. FTG.


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- Plato


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betrayedfriend
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Default  Posted: 4:26 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry for your boys, your x is a waste of o2. I'm glad they have Aussie, they get to see what a real man is like. Oh and by the way Fat shaming?! What the hell?! That makes me so sad for your sweet kids. Not cool douche bag, not cool. And where is the snow mountain? That sounds awesome!


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Posts: 856 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Midwest USA
BAB61
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Default  Posted: 4:40 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

wow, ftg, just ftg!


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1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
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Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
Clarrissa
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Default  Posted: 5:05 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Weatherly's boys)))

Gawd, what a dipshit. Evidently genius doesn't have a clue about boys even though he is one... mentally anyway. I remember your boys from a g2g a couple years ago and unless they've *really* packed on the pounds they're anything but fat. Yeah, boys that age eat alot. They also burn it off damn near as fast as they get it. Obviously that idiot doesn't know that.

Ignore him. Because you know he's a waste of space and skin.

Oh and that snow mountain? Can I play?


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WW (me) - 49


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Posts: 5860 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: A better place
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 5:16 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Weatherly, good to see you again, so so sorry about the circumstances. I get it, I do. xWH is all full of great advice about IrishLad's diet and exercise when he is with me (cause you know I have no clue what I'm doing ) and then sends my boy home with cookies, king size candy bar wrappers and such. They are infantile and mind numbing and they will never have the relationship that you have with your sons.


Me: 45 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 22, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1676 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
Weatherly
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Default  Posted: 6:02 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, and by the way...these are my "fat" children. But the one in the black is the one who is fat like his mother because he wears sweatpants.


And you know what, I can find you dozens of pics of both myself and Dipshit when we were between 10-13. We are heavy. At 13 we both got as tall as we were ever going to get, and, didn't gain another pound until we were in our twenties. Taller and heavier than everybody else our age, but thin as well. And I KNOW X got made fun of for 3 years. And now, he's gonna let his gf pick on my son?

Oh, and DS10, recently did a handstand in the living room, his nose itched. He lowed himself onto his head, balanced with his head, and one hand, scratched his nose, then put his hand back down, and pushed himself back up into a handstand. So, I'd be willing to bet, a good portion of that chunk is muscle. That kid can pick me up.

[This message edited by Weatherly at 6:04 PM, January 14th (Tuesday)]


Me-29,Two boys, 10 and 8

It will all be ok in the end. If it's not ok, it's not the end

Happily remarried to a wonderful man (Aussie). I think I found the right guy and the right finger this time.


Posts: 4475 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: Indiana
MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 6:13 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

FTG


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Posts: 5767 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal.....
Flowerforme
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Default  Posted: 6:27 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your boys are darling.

FTG!


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DD Aug.1/2012 with an ex gf had been seeing her the entire time we were together..

Posts: 17 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada
Gemini71
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Default  Posted: 6:30 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have two DSs 8 and 11, so I know exactly what you're talking about. My DS11 eats at least twice what I do and is growing by leaps and bounds. He is boarderline medically underweight, and because of the 'Childhood Obesity' hysteria, we had to get a doctor's note to allow him to get two lunches at school.

Your Ex's GF is obviously drinking the cool-aid of the hyper-skinny media. Where does she get off saying anything to your DS! Our parenting plan states that only the 'parents' will parent our kids, and any SOs will stay out of it. FTB!


Edited to correct stupid typos.

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.


Posts: 1538 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
yestopants
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Default  Posted: 6:39 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are amazing! Your boys are amazing! The only thing that is fat is that mans stupid ego! FTG

Hugs to you and the kids!


Me: 34
WH:37
Married 11years together 13 years
OW
"I don't love you anymore" 17/11/2013
DD 9 DS 7

Posts: 254 | Registered: Dec 2013
welcome14
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Default  Posted: 6:45 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

See, the problem here is that he is not a parent. He is a sperm donor. I have 2 adult kids, dd is 25, 5'6 and 120 pounds, ds is 33, 6'3 and 190. Every once in awhile, they would eat like horses, get a little chubby cheeked, then bam! would be like, three inches taller in the morning. We, as parents, know this is healthy and normal. Since from your pic it is clear that your kids are height/weight appropriate, just chalk this up to the sperm donor effect- he has no clue what a parent should know. And certainly no clue how to treat kids in an appropriate and healthy manner. My exh was like this, every time dd put on a little weight he was all over her, telling her to just eat grapefruit or whatever (very dangerous to tell girls, especially). I made it a priority to stress exercise over fad diets, and if I did gain any weight, I hit the gym harder. Luckily, she doesn't have any body issues, and will turn to yoga or her biking club if she does gain a pound or two. I am 56 and have a 18.7 BMI, while the ex is at least 40 pounds heavier than he should be- so much for diets or diet pills. I think what you are teaching them is so much healthier for them, especially in the long run, and they will be just fine. And, FTG.


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I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.


Posts: 1161 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: clarksville, tn/ Ft Campbell
ruinedandbroken
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Default  Posted: 8:16 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Beautiful boys.

FTG and the horse he rode in on.


“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
Me: BS 42. Him: WH 41 2 Kids 6&9
Married 14 yrs Together 21

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Clarrissa
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Default  Posted: 9:07 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

yestopants, I believe that not only is Dipshit's ego fat, his head is full of it. Your boys are NOT fat Weatherly and you know it. I'm sure they know it as well but remarks like that hurt anyway, especially coming from a parent. No doubt, in a few years, they'll sprout another foot or so and look like beanpoles. What'll he say then? They're too tall and it's your fault? As long as they're healthy, a few extra pounds (if they have any) isn't anything to get his panties in a twist over.


BH Cee64D - 48
WW (me) - 49


All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.


Posts: 5860 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: A better place
Pentup
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Default  Posted: 11:44 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have despised your ex since the first Christmas you were separated and were worried you would not have Christmas for those two gorgeous sweet boys. This just makes me despise him more. We need to have a bus pick up him and Nature Girls husband and some others and drive off the planet.

(((Weatherly and boys)))


Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

Posts: 6421 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Not Oz
NewMom0220
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Default  Posted: 12:32 AM, January 15th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

FTG!!!!!

Your boys are adorable and very fit.


Me: BS 36
Him: WS 37
14 month old DS
Married 5 years, together 8, DIVORCING!!! (taking forever)
DDay: 3/1/13 (4 Month PA while I was pregnant)
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Posts: 329 | Registered: Apr 2013
Getting to Happy
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Default  Posted: 1:32 AM, January 15th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Handsome boys!!!

His loss!

FTG!!!


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Posts: 1138 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: La La Land
SBB
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Default  Posted: 3:03 AM, January 15th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

“looks 16”

I had braces, a pizza face and greasy hair when I was 16. And I was an absolute arsehole. Maybe he's right.


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Posts: 5413 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
stronger08
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Default  Posted: 5:07 AM, January 15th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Verbal abuse, foul language and withholding food are some pretty serious reasons for termination of visitation. I'm sure a family court judge/child legal advocate would love to hear these stories. Toss in his deadbeat status and I think your golden. But you need to get that ball rolling yourself.


You cant eat soup with chopsticks.

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neverbeokay
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Default  Posted: 5:38 AM, January 15th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hate him for you. What a worthless excuse for a father.



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