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User Topic: Learned a new word today - Flirtationship
OnTilt
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Default  Posted: 7:45 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

From the Urban Dictionary:

Flirtationship - More than a friendship, less than a relationship.

I never heard this word before! Sounds like the 'slippery slope' to me or the start of an EA, but what a concise word to describe that slippery slope.
I have to tell you, this sums up precisely my wh's activities: secret flirtationships.

Doesn't make it hurt any less though.


BS(Me), WH(Him) in our 50's
Status: I'm giving up on him

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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 8:05 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for sharing. Interesting and I feel, unfortunately, describes a lot of workplace "friendships".


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

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cl131716
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Default  Posted: 8:08 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's perfect!


Me BS 31
Him WS 34 Trying4change
Together 3 years, married for one
D-day: 07/23/13 cybersex with COW
D-day: 12/27/13 found out he met and kissed a "friend" in 2011
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musiclovingmom
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Default  Posted: 8:28 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have a single friend who is in a self-described flirtationship with a single man. They're both over 30, been burned many times and live over 1,000 miles away from each other. Basically, for her, it's a trial relationship. To see if they're really compatible without making an actual commitment. Definitely would cross a line for a married person to be involved in a flirtationship like hers.

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dmg35
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Default  Posted: 11:44 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Perfect description

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silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 11:48 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This hits it right on the dot. Thank you for this.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.

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OnTilt
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Default  Posted: 10:12 AM, January 15th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for sharing. Interesting and I feel, unfortunately, describes a lot of workplace "friendships".

Yep, one article I read said the "work wife" could be a synonym.


BS(Me), WH(Him) in our 50's
Status: I'm giving up on him

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focusupward
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Default  Posted: 4:14 PM, January 16th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love it, can't tell you how many of these my lovely bride had at her place of work.


ME - 44
WW - 31
DDAY#1 - 11/15/10 - EA
DDAY#2 - 5/11/13 - PA

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Posts: 37 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Texas
totalheartbreak
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Default  Posted: 8:53 PM, January 16th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I recently heard:

Textual Relationship

Seems/sounds similar


Me: BH (31)
Her: WW (30)

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So I dream of a man whose hopes never end"

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