I have the phone number of every single OP he has talked to or texted in the last 20 years. I have done nothing with it. Many of his current pursuits are married, have a BF, or SO (some are Bisexual hes looking for a three way).
I have thought about contacting them to tell them he will be a free man. Telling them that even though they thought it was all a secret and exciting, it wasn't. His regular long term OW is skittish. She keeps stringing him along saying she wants out, but then gets drawn back in. If I tell her, I know, she may freak out and be worse off then I am. Where that makes the b*tch in me smile (maybe evilly laugh), it makes the Christian in me weep. The others are all taking money from him their BS may or may not know... I couldn't even begin to know how to contact them as I don't have last names, only first, sometimes, and the woman's number.
