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Default  Posted: 2:15 PM, January 16th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have the phone number of every single OP he has talked to or texted in the last 20 years. I have done nothing with it. Many of his current pursuits are married, have a BF, or SO (some are Bisexual hes looking for a three way).

I have thought about contacting them to tell them he will be a free man. Telling them that even though they thought it was all a secret and exciting, it wasn't. His regular long term OW is skittish. She keeps stringing him along saying she wants out, but then gets drawn back in. If I tell her, I know, she may freak out and be worse off then I am. Where that makes the b*tch in me smile (maybe evilly laugh), it makes the Christian in me weep. The others are all taking money from him their BS may or may not know... I couldn't even begin to know how to contact them as I don't have last names, only first, sometimes, and the woman's number.

BS: Me 44 WH: 50 Kids: 13, 15, 17, 28 DD: every yr Ow: tons Status: fed-up. A woman should never invest in a relationship she wouldn't want for her daughter, nor should she allow any man to treat her in a way she would scold her son for

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Default  Posted: 12:47 AM, January 18th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My WW tried to do similar; deny deny deny, until I found out from OMW that the OM had owned up to far more than what my wife had.

Onky after two months of constant TT have I finally gotten the truth.

My WW also made the mistake of thinking she could hide her affair from a military intelligence officer who also likes to dabble with computers...

Your intuition served you incredibly well. Please look after yourself and I hope all is getting slightly better.

Forgive the unforgivable, or bear the unbearable.

Me BS (34) WW (29)
Married 2 years
2y old Daughter
D-Day 05 Nov 13

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