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User Topic: Knock knock!
NoAnswers37
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Default  Posted: 3:59 AM, January 17th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hello all!

So it's been 4-5 months since DDay and I finally feel like I definitely belong in this room now : D

I have made huge progress over the last few weeks (mostly thanks to the change in meds and my amazing friends who have supported me) and for the first time in a long time I can honestly say:

I am looking forward to my New Beginning.

Yey!

[This message edited by NoAnswers37 at 4:13 AM, January 17th (Friday)]


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Posts: 122 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: England
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 7:06 AM, January 17th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dang I was already for "Who's there?"

Welcome to NB NoAnswers. I hope that you realize that NB means much more than just dating and relationships. It can be about any of the new changes that you take on to make your life better. Jobs, volunteering, activities . . . . enjoying life. Looking forward to the stories of your NB.


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Default  Posted: 7:32 AM, January 17th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome!

Yes, sometimes we do get "date heavy" in NB's, but it is also about everything else. Learning who we are post D.


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

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NoAnswers37
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Default  Posted: 7:55 AM, January 17th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for the welcomes!

Oh, I am in NO WAY thinking of dating right now, I just for the first time since DDay feel....happy

I feel I am finally out of the darkness and am looking forward to my new beginning (which is kind of me being ME again) and whatever that may bring.


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Default  Posted: 12:44 PM, January 17th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YAY!!!


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Default  Posted: 12:54 PM, January 17th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woohoo!

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Love this!! I may have to steal it!


Me - 42
SorryInSac (WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Stick a fork in me...

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
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NoAnswers37
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Default  Posted: 12:57 PM, January 17th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Steal away!


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Default  Posted: 1:29 PM, January 17th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dang I was already for "Who's there?"

So was I.

Welcome!


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Default  Posted: 1:44 PM, January 17th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Better4Me answers the door, "Hello NoAnswers, we are so glad you are here!!!"


I just for the first time since DDay feel....happy
That's when I knew I was ready to join the NB forum too!


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NoAnswers37
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Default  Posted: 1:49 PM, January 17th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks everyone!

I am so glad to finally be here - I have been lurking for months but for some reason did not feel ready to say hello.

I think I did not feel like anyhting was beginning, I was too deep in the depression. But today it feels RIGHT!

If you would have told me back then I would be like this today, I would never have believed you, so am chuffed that the worst part is finally over


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Default  Posted: 1:51 PM, January 17th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh and sorry to mislead you all into thinking this would be a humerous 'knock knock' thread - I am rubbish at jokes so won't even attempt to try!


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Default  Posted: 7:13 PM, January 17th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome.


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


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