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User Topic: Std Results back!
sparkle09
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Default  Posted: 8:45 PM, January 17th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Positive for Herpes Simplex 1! From what I'm reading is cold sores but I have never had a cold sore in my life and I've heard this can be transmitted through oral sex?!


Me-33 WS-34
1 year old sweet baby girl that is my world!
Together 15 years Married 5 years
D-day #1 - 12/25/13 TT D-day #2 - 1/3/13 admitted to 3 year affair with co worker
and she gave him a nice present that I now have!

Posts: 111 | Registered: Jan 2014
nomoredreams
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Default  Posted: 9:24 PM, January 17th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi. Their ones and twos are almost outdated nonsense, I think. I was dx'd with herpes one of the genitalia. I had no antibodies indicating long term exposure to it and nothing for two. It cost me $900.00 for the info. I do not know why I had to have it, when I already knew from prior testing that I was clear...but I bought it. I am sorry you tested positive. No matter where your sores eventually appear, it is just wrong. Prayers to you. nmd

Posts: 42 | Registered: Jan 2014
lifestoshort
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Default  Posted: 9:45 PM, January 17th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

yes I believe that is ONLY the cold sore virus. herpes simplex 2 is the genital type. L lysine and VSC herbs will help keep away any oral mouth cold sores.
my ex had these without his knowledge and i would get cold sores immediately. I was so pissed


6/07 EX had several Emotional/sexual A
FALSE Reconciles. cheats again. D 5/09
2013- 10 month marriage &D to friend. he was a lyin, freeloadn biploar mess.
NOW? Living my life and loving it.


Posts: 691 | Registered: Mar 2008
brohl5
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Default  Posted: 10:09 PM, January 17th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

how did your WH take the news?


I'm not going to let this define me anymore. He's gone and I couldn't be happier.

You couldn't have told me in July and December of 2006, but there really is a life after this mess.

Breathe, just breathe.


Posts: 5641 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Indiana
sparkle09
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Default  Posted: 10:36 PM, January 17th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He is freaking out! I know I didn't have this before because they tested me for everything when I had my daughter! I am going Monday to get tested and get my daughter tested. I've read it can be transmitted from kissing and sharing drinks and your infants get it easier!!!


Me-33 WS-34
1 year old sweet baby girl that is my world!
Together 15 years Married 5 years
D-day #1 - 12/25/13 TT D-day #2 - 1/3/13 admitted to 3 year affair with co worker
and she gave him a nice present that I now have!

Posts: 111 | Registered: Jan 2014
brohl5
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Default  Posted: 10:41 PM, January 17th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is a very very good idea. I don't know anything about STDs so I have no advice to offer.

Just ((((huge hugs))))

One day at a time is all you can do right now.


I'm not going to let this define me anymore. He's gone and I couldn't be happier.

You couldn't have told me in July and December of 2006, but there really is a life after this mess.

Breathe, just breathe.


Posts: 5641 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Indiana
solus sto
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Default  Posted: 7:28 AM, January 18th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Genital herpes can be caused by either HSV1 or HSV2. The variable here is not the strain of the virus; it's the type of contact WH had with an infected OW.

Oral or genital contact with either HSV1 or HSV2 can result in infection. "Oral" herpes can most assuredly manifest as genital herpes--and vice versa. It just depends on the behavior of those infected and their partners.

http://www.cdc.gov/std/herpes/stdfact-herpes.htm

I'm very sorry you've been affected like this. It's bad enough without a permanent infectious reminder.

[This message edited by solus sto at 7:31 AM, January 18th (Saturday)]


BS-me, 52
WH (Trac-fone), 52, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

Posts: 8538 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
sparkle09
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Default  Posted: 7:50 AM, January 18th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sick I don't know what I'm going to do! What man will want me once I tell him I have this??


Me-33 WS-34
1 year old sweet baby girl that is my world!
Together 15 years Married 5 years
D-day #1 - 12/25/13 TT D-day #2 - 1/3/13 admitted to 3 year affair with co worker
and she gave him a nice present that I now have!

Posts: 111 | Registered: Jan 2014
jjct
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Default  Posted: 8:06 AM, January 18th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A man that already has it too.
Yes, there are meet-up groups for ppl who have this.

Posts: 6516 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
Girlietoo
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Default  Posted: 8:12 AM, January 18th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm not sure if this helps but transmitted herpes 1 to my WH via a cold sore (it had not erupted yet but it is still possible to transmit). I have had cold sores on my lip since childhood and a few days after mine erupted so did one on my WH- and not on his lip :/

That was 15 yrs ago and while I have had many cold sores since, my husband has not had anything.

Again, it sucks and once you have the virus in your system you have it but it has not caused any issues in our situation.

I'm sorry though, getting it via an affair is truly awful.


Me- 40
Him- 47
March 9, 2013- the day my heart died

Posts: 245 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Canada
william
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Default  Posted: 9:00 AM, January 18th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

i cried in sympathy when i read the results. i am so sorry!


me - bh
her - lara01

from 09/11 - 05/13
2 ONS, 10 sexting partners, 1 LT EA/PA

??/06/13 DD/1 - admits to LT EA, begin false R.
01/13/14 DD/2 - LTA was PA.
01/18/14 DD/3 - sexting 5 guys.
01/19/14 DD/4 - 2 ONS with different guys


Posts: 527 | Registered: Jan 2014
sparkle09
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Default  Posted: 9:34 AM, January 18th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This mother fucker had the nerve to say it's just the cold sores everyone has!! Are you kidding me?! I didn't fucking have it before this! I'm done I want to file Monday! Who would stay after this?!


Me-33 WS-34
1 year old sweet baby girl that is my world!
Together 15 years Married 5 years
D-day #1 - 12/25/13 TT D-day #2 - 1/3/13 admitted to 3 year affair with co worker
and she gave him a nice present that I now have!

Posts: 111 | Registered: Jan 2014
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