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Topic: New Year's resolution and R
Member # 32890
Posted: 9:23 PM, January 17th (Friday), 2014
I decided to enjoy my M. I decided to appreciate all my FWH efforts and deeds. I decided to let my walls down 85% and allow myself to demonstrate my love to him.Since Dday he has been consistent, in full R.
These past few weeks I have been more on WW site than here, and realized that while he is committed to R, I was not fully committed.
Thank you to former Waywards who are remorseful and bold enough to share their thoughts and experiences. It opened my eyes to my shortcomings and my H mindset, and current emotions.
I have accepted, I forgave, now I am considering adding reconciled to my status.
[This message edited by pendant at 9:39 PM, January 17th (Friday)]
"Once forgiving begins, dreams can be rebuilt. When forgiving is complete, meaning has been extracted from the worst of experiences and used to create a new set of moral rules and a new interpretation of life's events."
Posts: 419 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: North Carolina
Member # 41053
Posted: 9:32 PM, January 17th (Friday), 2014
Great news! My hope is to be able to make that proclamation too someday. I'm so happy for you!
Me (BS) 58
Him (WH) 57
DD July 10, 2013, he moves out and declare he is filing for D and moves in with OW
July 13 he leaves OW
MC and R start within 2 weeks
Have stopped MC,
He is back to seeing OW, I'm planning my life without him
Posts: 68 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Middle of USA
Topic Posts: 2
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