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User Topic: Son phoned - he's being prepped for appendectomy
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 5:05 AM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm happy for the positive update .


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 6:18 AM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending continued healing thoughts and (((hugs))) to your family.


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 6:56 AM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Healing thoughts and mojo for a quick and complete recovery.

Nerve calming mojo for the family waiting for updates. It's really hard to be so far away from children facing a crisis, no matter how old.


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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 8:06 AM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Healing thoughts to him!!


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds like he's in great hands, good thing they got to it quickly.

2 years ago my (then) DS14 had a 'bad tummy ache', which turned out to be appendicitis. He was jumping up and down the stairs the next day like nothing had happened.

Of course, the morphine helped a bit.


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options

Posts: 2595 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 9:43 AM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending mojo for a speedy recovery. My ds had a perforated appendix a few years ago when he was 7. We did spend a few weeks in the hospital because he needed I.V. antibiotics to fight any infection. I believe he was on two by I.V. at the hospital, and another one orally when we came home.
He has a small scar now, but all is well.



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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 1:20 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Whew! Just talked with him, and the news sounds pretty good.

His biggest pain-related problem is gas. His white cell count was good at 5:20 AM, but a fever started around 10 AM. He says the docs aren't worried about the fever and would send him home today if he wants to go. He doesn't, but he's looking forward to going home tomorrow. (Last night they were saying they'd keep him until Tuesday, so this sounds encouraging.)

He's walked around, and he feels weak, but that seems normal.

He said the doc said he would basically be restricted by pain in his activity - lifting is OK, working out on his elliptical machine is OK.

We won't be able to relax until the fever is gone and he's recovered, but it sounds like that's going to happen. I wish we were there and had talked with the doc, but I bet the doc was happy to talk only with his W.

He's 42 years old. If we had been in close proximity, we'd have been as much of a wreck as Jrazz was earlier this week.

If your parents are normally dysfunctional or better and still alive, remember they care about you, even when you're an adult.


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DDay - 12/2010
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Posts: 10166 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
SoVerySadNow
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Default  Posted: 3:47 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's good news! Moving helps the gas, as we know, but it's amazing how bad the gas after abdominal surgery can feel.
Sounds like he's doing well,


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Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1292 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 7:47 AM, January 20th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just saw this, and it seems the SI mojo worked it's magic. I hope he has a speedy, uneventful recovery.

If all is well they may try to kick him out of the hospital today.

Mojo and prayers for this.


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Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8594 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 11:53 AM, January 20th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just talked with DIL - son feels very weak and tired, but his white cell count remains good and his fever is low-grade, which is apparently expected, given the extent of the rupture. Docs say he's ready to go home maybe tonight, otherwise tomorrow. They're OK with another day in the hospital.

It's so good to be able to share with folks like you - always ready with mojo, no questions asked, always ready to listen and share experience and expertise.

Thanks very much.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10166 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 2:19 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fever of 101.7, so he's staying until tomorrow AM. He thinks he's always had the fever, but his temp has previously been taken too soon after he's drunk some ice water.

None of us is happy...just waiting.

He doesn't want us there, and given the blizzard, we couldn't get there today anyway.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10166 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 3:48 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Adding healing mojo to your son and calming mojo to the parents


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Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 3:50 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Healing thoughts to your boy, Sisoon. And to you and Mrs. Sisoon as well. Having your baby hurt must suck, no matter their age.


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

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Ellejay
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Default  Posted: 3:50 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hope he feels better soon. Poor guy.



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D-Day: 20/11/10
Me: 48.5 plus 10% GST
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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 4:02 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((DS)))) Hope the fever is under control soon, sisoon. Continuing to send healthy mojo his way.


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 4:05 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He's 42 years old. If we had been in close proximity, we'd have been as much of a wreck as Jrazz was earlier this week.

Hey now!

Yep, loving your kids with every fiber of your being is crazymaking.

I hope your son's fever goes down soon. Keep us posted.

[This message edited by Jrazz at 4:06 PM, January 21st (Tuesday)]


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AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 8:53 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

showing up late but sending some prayers


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 11:18 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Looking good today - he's had 2 cycles of fever suppressant without a spiking temp, and he feels better than he has since this started. Sounds like he'll be sent home this afternoon.

We're feeling good.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10166 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:55 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 12:03 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great news!!


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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