Now, meh, nothing but a song.
I started to play songs that bothered me over and over. Turn them up loud and let them play.
It took away the pain from them.
She and my H shared songs, but not so much in their meanings, but just music they liked. I haven't asked which songs he sent her, and I don't think I want to know. I am sure many of them are songs we shared. And in return, I think he liked very little of what she sent to him.
I edit, therefore I am.
It helps a bit that W'S ring tone right now is "You Lie" by the Band Perry.
Mine for him was "I'm Hard to Love" by Lee Brice
"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit" Psalm 34:18