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User Topic: i need your advice/help
staystrong25
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Default  Posted: 9:43 AM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Should I contact the other woman? She was someone I considered my best friend but betrayed me and had an affair with my husband. I never got to tell her how I feel or just tell her off. I am still very bitter towards her, especially since she feels she is better then me now. Should I just let it be? I feel the need to get her back.

[This message edited by staystrong25 at 10:57 AM, January 19th (Sunday)]


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catlover50
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Default  Posted: 11:11 AM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would advise against it. She could really be hurtful to you; she clearly is not a nice person.

Ultimately what does a person like that matter? Her opinion means nothing. Stop letting her take up head space and focus on more positive things.



Dday -9/24/2012
Reconciling

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jjct
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Default  Posted: 11:15 AM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Advise against it too.
In the ICR forums, there's a thread for you called:
"Double Betrayal"

http://survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=512858

I'm so sorry. Please take care of yourself.
hugs


Posts: 6572 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
Lola88
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Default  Posted: 11:16 AM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She was never your best friend or even a good friend as she couldn't have done what she did if she was.

Sending strength, hugs and wishes for genuine friends to you (((staystrong25))) - you deserve better than her!


Posts: 126 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: UK
aero1122
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Default  Posted: 8:07 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I also contemplated contacting the OW and decided against it. She is a low life who is not worth your time or thoughts. She obviously was not a real friend if she betrayed you like this.
Stay strong (((hugs)))


Me-35
WH-36
Together 18 years
Married 7 years
2 kids
D-day 12-7-13
Both currently in counseling
Trying to R

I am a warrior!
I will survive and thrive!


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