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User Topic: To those who post in Jfo, d/s, etc.
mixedemotions
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Default  Posted: 5:15 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're awesome. Thanks for pulling the weight that I'm leaving to rest for a while longer. I tried and it was still too triggery for me...but I remember how immensely supported I felt in those forums, so thank you for doing what you do!


Me: Former BW, 28
Divorced 10/11/12
He didn't show up for the D...very fitting, seeing as he didn't show up for the M, either : )
"What did not demolish me simply polished me, now the clearer I can see" - India Arie

Posts: 378 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Back in the Southeast!
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((mixedemotions)))


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


Posts: 24440 | Registered: Aug 2011
SBB
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Default  Posted: 6:44 AM, January 20th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Posting responses helps me far more than the poster. Its amazing what connections I am able to make in my own situation when looking at someone else's situation.


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

Posts: 5444 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
curiouswiz
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Default  Posted: 7:45 AM, January 20th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so afraid to go into JFO. General triggers me. So, yeah, thanks folks. I hope to be able to help in the future. I tried to be helpful in the early months but now find it much too painful for me at this time.


God bless us, everyone.

Posts: 633 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Boston
risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 2:20 PM, January 20th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just started. I think it is another step forward for me. I understand the pain but I no longer am always actively feeling it.


There is life on the other side of hell.

Posts: 1588 | Registered: Mar 2004
ProbableIceCream
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Default  Posted: 4:15 PM, January 20th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is it weird that I don't 'trigger' from reading stuff? I might get mad or sad but that's about it.

(I understand triggers; I'm working on some triggers that I DO have, unrelated to infidelity so far, in therapy/with EMDR.)


Me: born 1982.
DD: born 2006 (I have abt 80% custody).
My D-Day was April 2012. Divorced Jul 2013.

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