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User Topic: Two chapters in to "Not Just Friends" and this book hurts
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Default  Posted: 10:03 AM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I read it, and I don't really like to read because I am not very good at it. That said, yeah I remember some pain when I was reading it, but I took away some good things out of it so I agree with everyone else READ IT anyway.

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Default  Posted: 10:05 AM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Harry))) The thing about reading, the more you read the better you get. Unless you have something like dyslexia, then I can understand how difficult it can be. Good for you for making the effort to read NJF's, that is wonderful!

BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson

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Default  Posted: 11:42 AM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I really wished my WH#2 would have read the book. He got to about page 50 and stopped, saying he does not like to read. I think it would have made our R go smoother if he could have understood more about the slippery slope and how easy it is to fall down. I am sorry it is painful, but I think it is neccessary to true R not to rugsweep any of it. I do not want the sexual details as I already have enough mind movies of my own, but some BS's do want all the details. I hope this book is helpful to you and your BS.

M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.

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