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User Topic: The End of The End
Starzjourney
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Default  Posted: 11:29 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NatureGirl)))

Thank you so much for sharing!!!!!!


Posts: 146 | Registered: Nov 2013
dmari
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Default  Posted: 12:33 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are so awesome ... the awesomemostest! A new word created for you. Thank you for sharing so much with all of us here. I have been blessed by your kind words of advice. There is just no stopping to where you are headed!! Continue to move forward and thrive!!


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Settled at mediation
Officially divorced ... SOON!

Posts: 2186 | Registered: Oct 2012
HurtsButImOK
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Default  Posted: 2:58 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Truly profound.



Me: Awesome - 35

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou

"When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be". –


Posts: 725 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
dindy
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Default  Posted: 11:48 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My family? It isn't broken. It was broken, but it does not remain broken. I have a new family now with just my kids, and we are solid.

^^^^^^^Exactly this!^^^^^^^

Good for you Nature_Girl!!

This is where I am heading and although I am absolutely shattered from single parenting, I know I am on the right path.


Posts: 459 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: uk
cmego
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Default  Posted: 12:28 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please write a book. Please.


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


Posts: 4134 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
peridot
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Default  Posted: 12:33 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Think of all the money you could make with a book. I'm sure it would be a best seller. Especially with all that garage stuff.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


Posts: 4775 | Registered: Feb 2008
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 12:57 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Okay, I made a little dent in an outline. A few possible chapter titles. Have written a few tidbits in chapters that were in my immediate consciousness. (I have to go with the creative flow, don't ya know!)

Thank of the CRIMES I could solve if a local police detective read the book! All that crap in the garage I found, surely something there is evidence from a crime??? LOL

Any book publishers reading this? I know TV show producers read here...

Of course we know the lawsuit my ex would bring down on me would eat up any profit I made from the book.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9639 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
alphakitte
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Default  Posted: 1:00 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Of course we know the lawsuit my ex would bring down on me would eat up any profit I made from the book.

Not if you structure an LLC and use a Pseudonym.

Don't let it slow you down!


------ Some people are emotional tadpoles. Even if they mature they are just a warty toad. Catt

Posts: 349 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: 3 klicks north of Ambiguous
tesla
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Default  Posted: 6:27 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, please write a book.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4619 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Thefly559
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Default  Posted: 6:52 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very emotional, very well written and very strong . Thank you


"what does not kill you , makes you stronger"

Posts: 646 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: nyc
rainagain
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Default  Posted: 7:17 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I like how you used the word refining rather than redefining. It makes me think of something raw and unnoticed (gem?) That's being polished- like it was always perfect.


Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:1
I done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love. Maino
Me: Divorced BS 49
DS22, DD19, DS17

Posts: 1294 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Massachusetts
Griefstricken25
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Default  Posted: 7:43 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Totally write under a pseudonym.


Me!
3 amazing kidlets
To WXH "Now you're just somebody that I used to know." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d9NF2edxy-M
D-day and separation - June, 2009
Divorced - December, 2011

Posts: 2508 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: A better place
Dawn58
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Default  Posted: 10:22 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank your for your honesty. It gives me hope to see how strong you are, the healing you have experienced. I am 13 months out, still waiting for my mediation date. Still feel a bit in limbo and trying to build a new life for myself. Finding out who I am. Still trying to cut those emotional ties, realizing that I married a man who never existed. Feeling my heart slowly healing, scarred but stronger.


I got into the marriage, because I loved him. I got out of the marriage, because I love me.

Posts: 468 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Southern California
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 6:51 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You've come a long way baby!

It is encouraging and inspiring to see a fellow 2011 BS making it ok for herself and her kids. Maybe not every minute of every day, but still. I would buy that book. 😊


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3580 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
need_hope
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Default  Posted: 8:13 AM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow. Very well written Nature_Girl. You've had a rough journey but you're going to be just fine.


Me - happily single
Him - no longer matters
Married 28 yrs
Filed for D 1/10
DIVORCED 12/12

Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.


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