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User Topic: Need prayers again...Mom is in I.C.U
truthsetmefree
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Default  Posted: 11:27 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The aorta aneurysm has grown rapidly. The chest xray this afternoon resulted in ER admittance and now an ambulance transfer to a larger (heart) hospital.

We are looking at surgery either tonight or in the morning. This will be the third surgery in so many weeks.

Scared.

Would GREATLY appreciate prayers.


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 11:34 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((truth, mom, and family)))

Saying prayers and keeping her in my thoughts.


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why2008
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Default  Posted: 11:43 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just said a prayer for your moms recovery and for your strength. (((truthsetmefree and mom)))


Me - BS - 46
Him - WS - 44
Two daughters / 10 and 7

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Kodi
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Default  Posted: 6:26 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prays headed your way.
(((truthsetmefree)))

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:32 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((truth & mom))))) Holding you and your family in my thoughts, honey.


You can call me NIK

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-Hayley Williams


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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 7:41 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending all I have for you and your mum tsmf.
((((((((((tsmf and mum)))))))))))))



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 7:46 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Truth & mom))) Love, prayers and healing thoughts to you.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Pentup
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Default  Posted: 7:54 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lord,
Please lay your hand on this family. Let them feel your peace and healing though the prayers and hands and words of those who meet them and those that love them. In your precious name. Amen


Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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truthsetmefree
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Default  Posted: 8:03 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you all so very much. I'm so grateful for you all....you are a very real source of comfort.

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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 8:58 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Saying prayers.
Sending hugs.
K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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dazdandconfuzed
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Default  Posted: 9:26 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Healing thoughts to your mom ((truth))


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Him - WH

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Exit Wounds
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Default  Posted: 11:02 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending lots of prayers,

I'm so sorry hon.


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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 11:20 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Count me in.

They do amazing things with medical technology nowadays.... I hope the surgery goes great, and I hope your mom recovers more quickly than anyone thinks possible.


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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 5:02 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending Prayers!!!


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SoHappyNow
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Default  Posted: 5:51 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry to hear this.....good thoughts coming your way.....

((((truth & mom))))))


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**Beloved hubby died at home 1/28/2013, age 61..** God sent me two good men in a row......and saved the best for last. Remarried 2/14/14, grief and joy....

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Pentup
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Default  Posted: 7:48 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Checking on you today (((Truth)))


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Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 8:14 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Truth)))))


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

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SummerLyn
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Default  Posted: 9:23 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thinking of you and keeping you and your Mom in my prayers.

((((Truth))))


I'd always thought that when I hit rock bottom, there'd be nowhere to go but up. Now I know running around in circles here is also an option.

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lemony.2008
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Default  Posted: 10:17 PM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry, truth.

Sending prayers and healing thoughts.

(((((truth and mom)))))


Feel the feelings and drop the story. - Pema Chodron


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truthsetmefree
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Default  Posted: 8:47 PM, January 27th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you all for the prayers, good thoughts, and love. It's been a really really rough week. The surgeon was concerned that infection was what had caused the aneurysm to grow so rapidly so he wanted a consult with the infectious disease department before surgery. Infection would cause risk to the success of the surgery and she would need a regimen of AB before he could operate. However we couldn't start any AB treatment until the infectious disease department concluded all their tests. Even after they did, the surgeon was not satisfied and still requested the AB regimen. This has resulted in her basically lying in the ICU the last 6 days and us just praying that the aneurysm wouldn't rupture before we could get to surgery (which would likely be fatal almost immediately).

All that to say - surgery is scheduled for tomorrow morning. Honestly, I'm not even sure what we will be looking at after that - I keep getting conflicting info - I've just not been able to think about anything other than just getting to the day. I initially had joked that there would be balloons and ice cream tomorrow - but a different type of apprehension is starting to settle in this evening.

If you still have prayers and are willing, I would so appreciate them. I'm sorry to have basically disappeared but I did read the responses and just knowing that my fellow SIers were covering me has been such an incredible comfort. - And if you will extend your graces once more, I promise I will do better and update tomorrow.

Much love to you all. And stop right now and go hug someone you love (even if you can only do it in thought).

[This message edited by truthsetmefree at 8:50 PM, January 27th (Monday)]


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