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User Topic: Need prayers again...Mom is in I.C.U
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:52 PM, January 27th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((mom, truth & family)))))) Holding you all in my thoughts, honey.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 8:55 PM, January 27th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Truth))))

So many times you've run to my aid when I was down...I want to be here for you too.

Please know that you are in my heart and prayers, I'm so sorry for all that you're going through.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 9:09 PM, January 27th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers heading your & Mom's way. (((truth)))


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 7229 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
Pentup
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Default  Posted: 9:15 PM, January 27th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Truth, you know we (I) have been covering you and your Mom in prayer. Figured you would update when you could. Have you gotten any rest?

Wish I was closer so I could just sit with you in real life, be a second set of ears when the drs are talking, hold your hand, buy you a drink, make a stupid joke to give you a smile. But know that when you need that, I am thinking it for you.


Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

Posts: 6587 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Not Oz
metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 9:28 PM, January 27th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending more love and prayers truth.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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truthsetmefree
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Default  Posted: 9:48 PM, January 27th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love you all so much. So very grateful for you.

My dad is having a really hard time with this. He was pretty broken up tonight. It's so very hard making this transition to parent role for your parents. You anticipate having to do it. You know others who have. But it's TOTALLY different when you are actually in it. It's VERY humbling for me to look back on how...indifferent - maybe too strong a word but I hope it can convey the general gist - I was prior to having experienced it. It truly is wrenching - and I'm just at the start! My heart is hurting tonight for those of you that have walked this path.


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Pentup
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Default  Posted: 10:54 PM, January 27th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Isn't that how all profound life experiences are to some degree? Happy ones, sad ones, scary ones? Until you have walked the path, you can be sympathetic or think you understand the impact, positive or negative, but you can not know.

I am sorry you are having to feel your way along this one. There can be people to guide you, warn you, explain, tell, share, but until you are there, it is always a little removed from your own personal set of filters. It is humbling to see a parent worried and scared. I can remember thinking, I have to be an adult now. As if I had never really been one before.

My heart goes out to you. I know you are incredibly strong. Even though you might not want to be. Lean on friends, let them be there for you. Lean into your faith. He is always there for you. This is scary and humbling time but it can also be a time to feel love and peace extended to you and through you.

Praying for skilled surgical staff, kind caretakers, strength for all of you and the love and peace of fellowship surrounding you and your family.


Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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weeping willow
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Default  Posted: 12:01 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are all in my prayers tonight. I will be thinking of you tomorrow and covering your mother in healing prayers for a successful surgery and a speedy recovery.

(((truth, mom and dad)))


BW - me FWH - him
D Day - July 26, 2007
Married 36 years


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lemony.2008
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Default  Posted: 12:26 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for the update, truth, and don't worry about it, we know you'd let us know when you can.

Continue with prayers and healing thoughts.

((((((truth, mom and family))))))


Feel the feelings and drop the story. - Pema Chodron


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truthsetmefree
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Default  Posted: 1:05 PM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Out of surgery! Did BEAUTIFULLY!!!

Working on pain management but she's drifting in and out of sleep so I think we are close to having that under control. She's also been wise-cracking some with the staff ever since being brought back to the room.

It's gone better than could even have been expected. Thank you all so very much for the prayers, etc. They really do work!


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:08 PM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Such fantastic news!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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Pentup
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Default  Posted: 1:08 PM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Continued prayers for pain relief and rapid healing!


Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

Posts: 6587 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Not Oz
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 1:13 PM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Covering you all in prayer.

((((truth/mom/pops))))


AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 1:20 PM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wonderful update!!

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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 2:11 PM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so happy that the surgery went well...now sending more prayers for a great recovery.

I still have prayers - the more I send out, the more I seem to have available for sharing.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

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Edie
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Default  Posted: 2:19 AM, January 29th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just spotted this thread, so glad to hear of the successful operation, Truth. Sorry it's been so dreadfully worrying for you. Big hug to you and thoughts with you all.


Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 DDs 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.

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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 7:46 AM, January 29th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is wonderful truth!!!



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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