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User Topic: Divorced, finally!
SBB
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Default  Posted: 2:03 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just opened the envelope with the court stamped doc - I've been free since Saturday!

My colleagues cracked open the champers and my girlfriends are planning a freedom party for me on Friday night.

Almost 2 years from DD and 18m from final S. I've been waiting for the papers since October.

Finally!! WOOWHOO!!


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

Posts: 5535 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 2:06 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Many, many, many whoops of joy for you!!!!!!!!!!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9538 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
PhantomLimb
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Default  Posted: 2:31 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

CONGRATS!!!!!!!!


BS / D

Posts: 863 | Registered: Jun 2013
dmari
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Default  Posted: 2:36 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm about to go to bed and saw your post! Yeehaw!! I'm so happy that another one of us can officially start their new beginning!! Enjoy your freedom party!


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 18, DS 15
Settled at mediation
Officially divorced ... SOON!

Posts: 2146 | Registered: Oct 2012
HurtsButImOK
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Default  Posted: 2:44 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woooohooooo!

Congratulations.


Its a fucking marvelous day when those papers arrive .


Me: Awesome - 35

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou

"When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be". –


Posts: 722 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
Bluebird26
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Default  Posted: 3:30 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats SBB! Here's to your new beginning.



"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

Posts: 1324 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 5:17 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13690 | Registered: Jul 2011
copout
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Default  Posted: 6:27 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very nice!! Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!


Every new beginning comes from some other beginnings end.

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copout
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Default  Posted: 6:28 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very nice!! Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!


Every new beginning comes from some other beginnings end.

Posts: 290 | Registered: Jan 2009
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:28 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woo hoo!!!! Congratulations, honey!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25061 | Registered: Aug 2011
nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 7:53 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WOOT!!!


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2589 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
Abbondad
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Default  Posted: 8:18 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Many congratulations, SBB. You have waited long and endured much. Breathe many deep sighs of relief and freedom and look forward to your life.

[This message edited by Abbondad at 8:19 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday)]


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


Posts: 1588 | Registered: Dec 2012
Pass
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Default  Posted: 8:31 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm happy for you, SBB. Congratulations on losing all that weight (that big hunk of dumbass dead weight!).

You deserve a happy, fresh, new beginning.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1835 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 10:13 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How did I almost miss this?????

WOOOOOOOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!

Way to go SBB - FREEEEEEEEEEEEDDDDDDDOOOOOOOOOOOMMMMMMM!!!


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...

Posts: 2555 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
Dobegirl
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Default  Posted: 10:17 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hip hip hurrayyyy!!! So happy for you!!


Me- BS 44 Always faithfull
Him- WS 44
2 mo. EA/PA with 25 yr. old slut that stroked his ego, online profiles, CL ads
Married 8 years-No kids together
DDay-11/21/12
False R many different times fromJan/13 till Dec/13
Divorcing

Posts: 148 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Northern Indiana
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 10:18 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Where is the happy dance icon???

CONGRATS!!


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

Posts: 2651 | Registered: Jan 2010
haysuth01
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Default  Posted: 10:18 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!


XBS
Divorced 5/07.
DS-7! What?!
Happily remarried, B/G twins (5).

Posts: 219 | Registered: Jul 2010
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 10:20 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!!!!!! Happy New Year, my friend.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5776 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
cayc
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Default  Posted: 10:28 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great news!


"The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed." -Martina Navratilova
"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand

Posts: 3059 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
littlefoggy
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Default  Posted: 10:41 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!


Me: BW 30
WH 37
DDay 11/12/13
Divorcing

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