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User Topic: Divorced, finally!
BAB61
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Default  Posted: 12:41 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YAY!!!! Happy New Beginning!!!


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
peridot
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Default  Posted: 12:57 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!!


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


Posts: 4703 | Registered: Feb 2008
badmedicine
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Default  Posted: 3:14 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy for you, SBB!! Such a long process and I'm sure it's satisfying in a way to see it over. You've already started on a new beginning but now you have the paperwork to prove it.


"The wishbone will never replace the backbone." -Will Henry
"This wasn't just plain terrible, this was fancy terrible. This was terrible with raisins in it." -Dorothy Parker

Posts: 177 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: United States
Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 3:20 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats! Whoop! Whoop!

Onward to better things!


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 22,17 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 979 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
Lola7
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Default  Posted: 3:42 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay! Congratulations! :)


caelitus mihi vires
"My strength is from heaven"
DIVORCED!

Posts: 211 | Registered: Nov 2013
SBB
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Default  Posted: 4:09 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I did shed a few tears last night but it was the first night my girls were away and I do that the first few nights they go anyway. I wish they were here so I could hug them.

This melancholy has been around for a few days because I'm hating this week-about business. Ironically I've been listening to a song called "Free" non-stop for the last 3 days (this version is beautiful - starts at 0:40 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dRcRhWErjjo)

I had the best nights sleep last night - some of it was the 2 glasses of champers but a lot of it was peace. Blessed peace.

Y'know - before I was married I thought the marriage certificate was just a piece of paper. I used to tell people I was surprised that I did feel 'different' once I was married. There's something about standing in front of everyone and making a statement like that. He felt like family, my family felt like his, his family felt like mine. Connection.

I do feel 'different' again now. On Friday night I'm going to stand in front of 20 of my girlfriends and make another statement. One of freedom, of connection with myself, my friends, my family, my amazing little girls. Then I'm going to party like its 1999.

Thank you for all the support you give. I don't know anyone IRL who has been through this so I can't fully express how grateful I am for all of you.

(((SI Family)))


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

Posts: 5447 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
dreamlife
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Default  Posted: 4:18 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bravo to you!


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

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h0peless
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Default  Posted: 4:40 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a relief that must be. Congratulations!

Posts: 1580 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Arizona
Vulcanized
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Default  Posted: 5:22 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats, SB!!!!

See if you can find a mechanical bull to ride on Friday!


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
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Everything is as it should be.

Posts: 733 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
tesla
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Default  Posted: 5:41 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woo-freaking-Hoo!!!!!

Cannot wait to raise a glass of wine in your honor tonight.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4559 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
mof2
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Default  Posted: 5:58 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!! On to bigger and better things for you....while karma will bite the ex in the ass!


BW - Me 43
WH - Cheating Swine 43
Dday - February 12, 2013....a week before I was to give birth to the child I miscarried and 12 days before our 5th anniversary.

Posts: 312 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: DFW
SBB
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Default  Posted: 8:16 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

See if you can find a mechanical bull to ride on Friday!

OMG! Worst/Best idea ever!!!

Thank you all - I'm beaming today. Absolutely beaming.


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

Posts: 5447 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
myowndystopia
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Default  Posted: 9:20 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats on the end and the beginning!


Me- BS
Him - WS (the Grub)
married 28 years/4 kids(mostly grown)

"'Cause there's a side to you that I never knew, never knew.
All the things you'd say, they were never true, never true "
Set Fire to the Rain
Adele


Posts: 408 | Registered: Nov 2013
HurtsButImOK
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Default  Posted: 9:41 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A word of caution.............

Your face/cheeks might hurt from all the smiling. Try to remember to take breaks from incessantly grinning throughout the day.

I think my dimples have wrinkles now


Me: Awesome - 35

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou

"When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be". –


Posts: 722 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
myowndystopia
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Default  Posted: 9:59 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so stealing the freedom party idea! Hell - I might even hire a band if the L doesn't take it all!


Me- BS
Him - WS (the Grub)
married 28 years/4 kids(mostly grown)

"'Cause there's a side to you that I never knew, never knew.
All the things you'd say, they were never true, never true "
Set Fire to the Rain
Adele


Posts: 408 | Registered: Nov 2013
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 10:55 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm beaming today. Absolutely beaming.

Exactly how I felt when I got mine. I went out to eat with some special people and I got a fortune cookie with, "All good things will now come your way." as my fortune. A few days later, I received the D decree in the mail, official when I got that fortune. And it has been so true! Well, except for what xpos continues to do to me. Everything else has been great.


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2189 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
SBB
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Default  Posted: 2:58 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your face/cheeks might hurt from all the smiling. Try to remember to take breaks from incessantly grinning throughout the day.

I have RSI of the cheeks!


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

Posts: 5447 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
velveteer
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Default  Posted: 3:34 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well done SBB - enjoy the new start! I hope to be not far behind.....


Divorced

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Vulcanized
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Default  Posted: 3:43 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG! Worst/Best idea ever!!!

Only if you fight the bull. I can privately send you a link to the video that crippled me for ... 5 fucking days.


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
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Everything is as it should be.

Posts: 733 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
SBB
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Default  Posted: 4:25 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

^^ Yes please!!

I'm still sore from the mummy sized jumping castle on Saturday. I'll do warm ups before next time.


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

Posts: 5447 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
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