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User Topic: Divorced, finally!
Lola2kids
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Default  Posted: 6:52 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, SBB, I'm so happy to read this.
I was under the impression that you were waiting for the sad clown to file after the 1 year waiting period.
It's done. Congrats.

Now go get that bull.


BS: (Me) 47
Kids: twins DD(10)
WS: Him 49 (Together 12 years)
D-Day April 18, 2011, Him:out Sept. 11, 2011..moved June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

Posts: 1364 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
SBB
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Default  Posted: 2:37 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

@Lola, I was waiting for him to file (let him do the running around and pay the $800 - its his fraud to complete, not mine!).

He sent me the doc to sign in October then sat on it for a month or two waiting for me to ask him about it for some big fat juicy ego kibbles. He got skinny crickets instead.


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

Posts: 5535 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
yestopants
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Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

congrats!!


Me: 35
STBXWH: 38
2 amazing kids DS DD
almost Divorced!

Posts: 277 | Registered: Dec 2013
rainagain
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Member # 14917
Default  Posted: 3:51 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!

"skinny crickets"


Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:1
I done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love. Maino
Me: Divorced BS 49
DS22, DD19, DS17

Posts: 1293 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Massachusetts
need_hope
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Default  Posted: 3:53 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations. I'm glad this part is over for you.


Me - happily single
Him - no longer matters
Married 28 yrs
Filed for D 1/10
DIVORCED 12/12

Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.


Posts: 1730 | Registered: May 2009 | From: East Coast
Thefly559
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Default  Posted: 5:31 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations to you sbb. You are so strong and inspirational to all. Enjoy your total freedom and new beginnings. All the best.


"what does not kill you , makes you stronger"

Posts: 630 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: nyc
soveryweary
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Default  Posted: 5:57 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats SBB!!!


Divorced 1/3/14

Posts: 621 | Registered: May 2011
Sparkles
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Default  Posted: 11:54 AM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations SBB!
...And thank you for all the support and wisdom you share with this site. I always enjoy reading your posts.

Posts: 138 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: In a better place
NewMom0220
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Default  Posted: 12:57 PM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay! Congrats!


Me: BS 36
Him: WS 37
14 month old DS
Married 5 years, together 8, DIVORCING!!! (taking forever)
DDay: 3/1/13 (4 Month PA while I was pregnant)
Sometimes all you have to do is forget what you feel and remember what you deserve.

Posts: 352 | Registered: Apr 2013
SBB
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Default  Posted: 4:49 AM, January 25th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm thanking my lucky stars today that I don't suffer hangovers - I seem to sleep them off.

My freedom party was awesome and my speech was hilarious and brilliant (even if I do say so myself).

I thanked everyone there for the kind of support they gave me - support that I never knew I needed but I so did. I am grateful to every single one of them.

Those who ranted with me, cried with me, hugged me as I sobbed, rage walked with me, sat quietly with me in contemplation, spoke gentle words to me, said prayers for me even though I'm not a believer, roared at the moon with me, put me back into line when my white hot rage started besting me, patted my head to comfort me, spooned me during the darkest times, laughed so hard our stomachs and cheeks hurt, recommended beautiful books, songs, films and works of art to inspire me.

I am so unbelievably blessed to have this army beside me IRL and the SI army here too. So blessed.

I hope to god I never have to repay these kindnesses big and small but I am ready to do it in a heartbeat.

Divorce is not what I ever wanted - it did become what I needed. I am more sure of divorcing that guy than I ever was about marrying him.

Strong But Broken was my original name here. If I signed up today it would be Blessed and Free.... and Whiskey/Whisky proof.


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

Posts: 5535 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
SusanR
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Default  Posted: 6:20 AM, January 25th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((SBb)))

"Divorce is not what I ever wanted - it did become what I needed. I am more sure of divorcing that guy than I ever was about marrying him."

This.

Thank you.


Posts: 1931 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Midwest
careerlady
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Default  Posted: 9:30 AM, January 25th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm glad you're free and that you had a great time. You deserve it!


Me (BS, 35); The Snake (WS, 36) 13yrs together; 1 baby boy (DOB 7/12)
Serial cheater-Multiple OWs, Multiple D-Days
D by default 5/3/14!
In house 8 mos, moved out 7/1!!!
Summary: http://youtu.be/iaysTVcounI

Posts: 937 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Northern California
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