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User Topic: Think I am going to miscarry
betrayedfriend
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Default  Posted: 10:25 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Jana)) I'm so very sorry. Please take all the time to rest, recuperate, and take care of yourself. These next few weeks will be the hardest. We're here for you. I've lost four angels, the pain gets bearable in time.


I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.

Posts: 855 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Midwest USA
Vulcanized
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Default  Posted: 10:32 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jana))) I'm so sorry.


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
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Everything is as it should be.

Posts: 727 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
turtle72
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Default  Posted: 10:47 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jana)))


Me: 41 BS/WW/BS
2 kids 9 & 11, 3 steps 20, 8 and 3
BS 1st DDay 10/14/08, 5 mo. PA w/ MOW
WW 2nd D-Day 3/22/10, my exit A with HS BF
Separated 4/19/10
Married H #2 10/8/11
BS latest Dday 12/28/13 - PA w/ single COW

Posts: 2207 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Massachusetts
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 11:02 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You'll cry when the time is right.
{{{hugs}}}


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 7685 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 11:18 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Jana)))))

Posts: 6181 | Registered: Dec 2010
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 1:52 AM, January 31st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jana)))


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7779 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 7:07 AM, January 31st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jana)))


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4131 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
JessicaFL127
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Default  Posted: 7:18 AM, January 31st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jana)))


BW,32
divorced for 6 years
mom to two awesome boys,10 and 9

"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you more" -Cath, DCFC

"The most amazing things can come from some terrible lies"


Posts: 1244 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Missouri
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 7:35 AM, January 31st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jana)))


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9404 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 8:07 AM, January 31st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OK, this is annoying. I would have liked to have had the D&C today, but since my appointment was at 3:45 yesterday and I didn't even finish talking to my doctor until 5:25, the scheduling person was gone and I was told it would be Monday. So I get a call just a minute ago and the lady asked if I could come in at noon. Well, I had a bigass coffee this morning and my H made pancakes. So yeah, that's a no. Fuck. It'll be 8:00 am on Monday, which means I have to check in at the hospital at 6:00 am.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6537 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
refuz2bavictim
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Default  Posted: 8:13 AM, January 31st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Jana))


BS:ME DDay: 7/18/09 Last of TT 7/11/10
MOW's EA/PA all were my "friends" but one


Posts: 2372 | Registered: Jan 2010
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 8:13 AM, January 31st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Jana))))

This has just been the most frustrating week for you. Do something very nice for yourself this weekend. A new doo, a massage, something.

You deserve it.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 7795 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 8:19 AM, January 31st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well since I'm no longer taking prenatals, I might finally be able to doo.

I'm sorry, that was awful, I couldn't resist though.

I really could use a haircut though. Good idea.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6537 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
stroppy_wanadoo
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Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, January 31st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jana))) My thoughts are with you. So sorry for your loss!

Posts: 999 | Registered: Jul 2006
Hurtm
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Default  Posted: 9:19 AM, January 31st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hugs Jana (()). I've been there and it sucks


DD day October 17th (my birthday, lucky me)
Married 9 years, two kids (4 1/2 and 21 months)
He moved out and we're heading for divorce. Currently working through all the fun legal stuff

Posts: 42 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Ontario
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 10:28 AM, January 31st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry, Jana.

Take care of yourself.


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21032 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 10:30 AM, January 31st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((jana)))


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 51479 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 10:33 AM, January 31st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry, Jana.


Posts: 3300 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
SoVerySadNow
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Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Jana))))


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1280 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
solus sto
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Default  Posted: 4:25 PM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Jana)))) thinking of you


BS-me, 52
WH (Trac-fone), 52, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

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