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User Topic: Think I am going to miscarry
MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 6:39 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jana))) & (((TCD)))

I am so sorry...


FWW - 41
"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson

Posts: 5939 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal.....
TattoodChinaDoll
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Default  Posted: 6:47 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Jana - how are you feeling otherwise? Have you had blood work?


Me (BW): 32
WH: 33 TimeToManUp
Married: 11 years, together 16 years
3 daughters: 9, 5, 3, and and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011


Posts: 1722 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: New Jersey
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 6:53 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((TCD))))

Posts: 35411 | Registered: Mar 2011
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:59 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Jana)))))
(((((TCD)))))


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25530 | Registered: Aug 2011
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 7:01 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Jana)))) ((((TCD))))

Sending you strength, and hope.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8600 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 7:03 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had bloodwork on the 27th, my numbers were perfect. My progesterone was 2x as high as it was with my daughter. I actually had symptoms with this one, unlike my first 2 first trimesters. I feel pregnant, you know? No spotting, cramping.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6776 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
hitbyatruck
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Default  Posted: 7:23 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Jana,
I'm sorry.

I miscarried on Christmas day 1999, my first. I got pregnant again and my due date was Christmas 2000. My beautiful baby girl was born a little early but healthy.

(((JANA)))


Married 1998, 2 kids
D-day3/27/09,he left 5/23/09
WH wants to rebuild 3/21/10
He moved back in 9/25/10,
Dec, 2011-finally putting it all together, H had multiple affairs.
Possible porn addict for 15 yrs.
01/2014- in house separation

Posts: 3280 | Registered: Apr 2009
Kelany
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Default  Posted: 7:41 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry Jana and TCD.


BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

Former 80s Icon wishful thinking


Posts: 2031 | Registered: Feb 2012
Hurtm
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Default  Posted: 8:02 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hugs to both of you (())


DD day October 17th (my birthday, lucky me)
Married 9 years, two kids (4 1/2 and 21 months)
He moved out and we're heading for divorce. Currently working through all the fun legal stuff

Posts: 45 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Ontario
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 8:29 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jana)))

(((TCD)))


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15403 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 8:42 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((((((Jana)))))))))

(((((((((TCD)))))))))


Posts: 11691 | Registered: Mar 2008
kiki1
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Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Jana (my daughters name) and TCD,

Many hugs to both of you.

You'll both be in my prayers tonight.


Posts: 571 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: new york
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you guys. Now that I'm alone & it's quiet (DH & DD are both sleeping), the disappointment is really heavy.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6776 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
deeplysad
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Default  Posted: 9:12 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just went back and read your original post...there is Still hope. I know you don't want to get your hopes up, but you don't know for sure yet. I'm going to think positive for you.


Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert


Posts: 3241 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: So Calif
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 9:16 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I appreciate any positive thoughts. I just can't afford to go there myself but I deeply appreciate them from others.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6776 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
positively4thst
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Default  Posted: 9:19 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Jana,

You have to think positive until you know otherwise. These dates are not a science, even when they should be! You are still early on and it is entirely possible the heartbeat is there but they haven't heard it for whatever reasons, including the position of the baby! Please don't give up hope based upon past experience. Think positive, visualize a healthy baby, and don't give up! Think of all the women who give birth and didn't know they were pregnant!! I know you don't want to get your hopes up because of your past experience, but you can't give up hope solely based upon that. My thoughts are with you.


Posts: 1248 | Registered: May 2009
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 9:54 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you big positive thoughts. Until the doctor tells you otherwise, we can hang on to some hope that things are going to be ok.

HUGE hugs right through the monitor.

(((JG)))


The best way to cheer yourself up is to try and cheer someone else up. - Mark Twain

Posts: 17570 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 10:01 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry that your heart is so heavy tonight. Is it okay if I carry a little bit of hope in mine for you? ((((HUGS)))


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9715 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
myowndystopia
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Default  Posted: 10:10 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending strength to you both. A harsh reminder that creation is truly a miracle. Stay strong.


Me- BS
Him - WS (the Grub)
married 28 years/4 kids(mostly grown)

"'Cause there's a side to you that I never knew, never knew.
All the things you'd say, they were never true, never true "
Set Fire to the Rain
Adele


Posts: 408 | Registered: Nov 2013
avicarswife
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Default  Posted: 10:23 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jana))) and (((TCD)))
Thinking of you guys and sending lots of love.


BS: 47 (me)
WH: 51
Married 26 yrs, 3 kids (16-24)
D-Days 2012: 23 - 24 May + TT
D-Day 2013: 12 Apr OW#3
mOW #1 EA yrs PA Feb 2009-end 2011
mOW #2 EA months PA 4 months 2010
OW #3 PA single time 2010
Status: Maybe 'R'

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