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User Topic: Think I am going to miscarry
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 6:34 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

First of all:

(((Jana))) and (((TCD))) and (((all the other mamas who have endured this loss)))

Second, if it helps: My DD (now age 5) was conceived at the end of January 2008. I know that for a certainty because we were planning on starting to try for a baby in March, but we ended up throwing caution to the wind just the one time because we were going to start trying anyway. So, based on the typical calculations, DD should have been born at the end of October, I assumed.

Well, they went by my last period, and they said October 14th. Well, a little earlier than I thought, but okay. DD actually came October 5th, which was almost a month earlier than I thought! She was 7 lbs., 10 oz. and just fine, so she was not a preemie by any stretch of the imagination.

My point is, there's clearly flexibility in the timeline, as my DD is evidence of that. It's also excellent that you still "feel" pregnant and that your bloodwork is good. I've known women for whom those were their first signs of miscarriage.

I'm sending you as much positive mojo that I can, and I dearly hope all is well with your baby. Take care.


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 8:41 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My pregnancy symptoms are pretty much gone this morning. Just dying slowly waiting on a call back with bloodwork results. I told my boss what was up. Fortunately she is very very kind.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6778 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 8:43 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Jana))
((TCD))


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7699 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 8:55 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry to keep posting on my own thread. I just want to scream and scream and scream and instead I'm sitting here with a neutral expression on my face acting like nothing is wrong.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

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landabear
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Default  Posted: 9:02 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry Jana and TCD. I've had two miscarriages myself, they just absolutely suck.

I'm sorry to keep posting on my own thread. I just want to scream and scream and scream and instead I'm sitting here with a neutral expression on my face acting like nothing is wrong.

There is no reason to be sorry. You do what you gotta do to get through the day.


BS
Divorced: March 2006
Married to a wonderful, FAITHFUL man: October 2009

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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 9:23 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Jana.

((((Jana & TCD)))))

My sister just went thru a waiting game with bloodwork and such. It was torture.

Post all you need. If it's what helps you right now, do it.

We're here for you.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


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Exit Wounds
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Default  Posted: 9:36 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((JanaGreen))))) I am so sorry!

Posts: 2486 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: With my dad...and my dog...
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 11:19 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Jana)))))


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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 11:22 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sweetie don't apologize, that is a very difficult thing to go through, and the pisser is many people act like it's no big deal.

For me it would have been. For most women it is, and we are expected just pretend all is well.

Go have a good scream in your car if you feel like it.

(((and strength)))


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

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simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 11:27 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Hugs)))


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

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Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 11:30 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm really sorry to hear this, Jana. :-(


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

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SoVerySadNow
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Default  Posted: 11:43 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry, Jana. I'm thinking of you.
And TCD- tremendous sorrow for your loss.
(((((Jana)))))
(((((TCD)))))


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1292 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
lost_in_toronto
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Default  Posted: 11:52 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Jana))))

Scream all you need to here, honey. So sorry.


Me: BS/39
Him: WS/37
DDay: August 23, 2009
Together 14 years.
Reconciled.

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peacelovetea
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Default  Posted: 11:53 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

{{hugs}} Jana and TCD.


BW, SAHM
D-Day: 6/5/09, drunken ONS on business trip, confessed immediately, transparent, remorseful but emotionally clueless
M 11 years, 3 kids
4/12 Tried to R for 3 years, have decided to D
12/31/12 D final

Posts: 542 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: PacNW
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 12:10 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jana)))

Honey you can keep posting here. We're here for you. Right now.


The best way to cheer yourself up is to try and cheer someone else up. - Mark Twain

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itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 1:48 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jana)))

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heartbroken_kk
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Default  Posted: 6:08 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Jana))

Hugs for you. Sending strength.


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


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TattoodChinaDoll
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Default  Posted: 6:43 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just wanted to let you know in still thinking of you and praying.


Me (BW): 32
WH: 33 TimeToManUp
Married: 11 years, together 16 years
3 daughters: 9, 5, 3, and and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011


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JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 8:46 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

:) thanks TCD - how are you doing? I'm feeling calmer tonight. Waiting sucks but I have zero choice but to wait right now.

[This message edited by JanaGreen at 8:50 PM, January 23rd (Thursday)]


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6778 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 8:49 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Never mind. I'm crazy.

[This message edited by JanaGreen at 8:50 PM, January 23rd (Thursday)]


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

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