As we discussed, he's willing to now pay an attorney $5K plus court fee in order to save $120 per month. So his break even point won't be until well over 3.5 years. My guess is that in 3 years he'll be making an additional $120 per month in his current job with raises. That is of course unless he fucks up this job...again.
Some people are just clueless. It proves his selfishness, even when it directly affects his kids. Leave it and don't do a thing until he makes a move first. He probably doesn't even have the retainer to afford an attorney. BS(me) 47
1 son 14 yrs old
Married 18 yrs, together 21 yrs
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have." ~ Bob Marley