I wish I had some advice, but I can't get out of my own limbo!
Are you in MC? (My short term memory isn't the best!) do they have any helpful tools or activities to help with the decision making process?
I agree divorce sucks.
Maybe the decision that needs to be made is deciding what is keeping you apart and working on that full steam ahead?Me: BS 44
Him: WH 47
Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
Heading for Divorce
3 kids: 15,17,19
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart, wait for The Lord.