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roarlouder
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Default  Posted: 12:21 AM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I left last night.., I know it's what I needed to do. I am so nervous he's going to be nasty and sneaky financially and I didn't have a chance to get any documents, etc.

It was so empowering to leave, but so shitty to feel so vulnerable right now.


DDay-sept 2013
1LTA(5yrs) plus many ONS
Divorcing.
No kids

Posts: 356 | Registered: Oct 2013
Jrazz
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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 1:32 AM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((roarlouder)))


I bow to those who keep their hearts open when it is most difficult, those who refuse to keep their armor on any longer than they have to, those who recognize the courage at the heart of vulnerability. - Jeff Brown

Posts: 17283 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Softcentre
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Member # 39166
Default  Posted: 1:56 AM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hear you ((hugs))


Me: BW
Him: STBXWH 'The Arse' likes strong but broken OW
OW - EA - 'Holy Chick'
COW - Suspected EA/PA 'The Ambassador'
COW - Susp EA 'The Baker'
COW - EA/PA 'Fat Bottomed Girl'
COW - Susp EA 'MiniMe'

Posts: 976 | Registered: May 2013 | From: UK
roarlouder
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Member # 40921
Default  Posted: 3:27 AM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And it shouldn't matter, but I wonder who is on my house tonight? I just had an additional woman confirmed tonight (I had pretty much figured out)... I told a friend I left, and she said I need to tell you a story I heard 6 months ago.

There's no question this is what I need to be doing. I just wonder when the urge to drive by my house in the middle if the sleepless night will pass?


DDay-sept 2013
1LTA(5yrs) plus many ONS
Divorcing.
No kids

Posts: 356 | Registered: Oct 2013
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:10 AM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((roarlouder))))) That urge passes, honey. I'm glad you are safe.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25265 | Registered: Aug 2011
JerseyCowgirl
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Default  Posted: 8:18 AM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You will get through this. He probably will become nasty so be prepared.

Today I will keep you in my thoughts ... safety for you and that peace will come to you now.

It is not fair you have to leave and the changes will be overwhelming at times but know I will be thinking good thoughts all day for you.


Me: Divorced 2012
I know that when I truly love & honor myself I am at my best & most complete; and I will never settle for anything less from myself or from anyone else ever again!

Posts: 324 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Have not decided where to land yet!
roarlouder
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Default  Posted: 12:34 PM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for the support. I am surrounded by amazing family, friends, bosses. I wish I would have been legally better prepared before I left, but I couldn't pretend and I just needed out.

5 hours of sleep in 2 days isn't quite cutting it either


DDay-sept 2013
1LTA(5yrs) plus many ONS
Divorcing.
No kids

Posts: 356 | Registered: Oct 2013
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