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LA44
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Default  Posted: 2:06 PM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nice one, Rebreather! Your humour and no nonsense words have been a great help to me too.


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2285 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
karmahappens
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Member # 35846
Default  Posted: 2:28 PM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love that Rebreather!


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3800 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
shatteredapart
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Default  Posted: 2:31 PM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Karmahappens thank you for the posts! Rough night here last night but we sorted it out before bedtime. Ugh...we're still learning how to communicate properly and fight fair. One step at a time...
All your posts rang true and a few made me chuckle even. Thanks!!!


Me-BS
Him-WS
EA(PA?) 10 months with COW
3 ddays-Sept '13, Oct '13, Dec '13
Attempting Reconciliation...time and actions will tell

Posts: 122 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: USA
Morhurt
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Default  Posted: 2:34 PM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

First try with a photo...

edited to try again...
and again!

[This message edited by Morhurt at 2:36 PM, January 24th (Friday)]


Me: BS
Him: FWS
M: 15 years
4 lovely daughters
Working to rebuild.

Posts: 919 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Canada
karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 2:38 PM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((shatteredapart))) One step indeed....be good to yourself along the way.

Great job Morhurt!


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3800 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
Morhurt
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Default  Posted: 2:46 PM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Another one I love

[This message edited by Morhurt at 2:49 PM, January 24th (Friday)]


Me: BS
Him: FWS
M: 15 years
4 lovely daughters
Working to rebuild.

Posts: 919 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Canada
Morhurt
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Default  Posted: 2:53 PM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

These next two are cards that our little girls made for us. They didn't know what was wrong this summer, only that there were a lot of tears and Mum and Dad needed to spend a lot of time alone together. So sweet and so sad.

You two are so perfect together.

You two are in loving partners together.

Edited to add translations

[This message edited by Morhurt at 2:56 PM, January 24th (Friday)]


Me: BS
Him: FWS
M: 15 years
4 lovely daughters
Working to rebuild.

Posts: 919 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Canada
karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 3:47 PM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Those are awesome morhurt!


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3800 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
ILINIA
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Default  Posted: 4:07 PM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Thanks for a good end to the work week!


Entering R slowly and cautiously...

Posts: 464 | Registered: Jul 2013
Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 4:18 PM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Agree with Ilinia! Now I'm off shortly to get my hairs did, then to the neighbors for pizza (salad for me) and puppy breath. Certainly THAT is a healing thing!!


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6442 | Registered: Jan 2011
mandala
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Default  Posted: 5:43 PM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks guys.

Been a "down" couple of days for no particular reason, just one of the "spells" I guess.

Here's to everyone having at least one genuine laugh about something/anything this weekend.


Me: BW 50
Him: WH 50
Married 21 years
Four awesome kids
EA Began 6/2013 PA 8-9/2013 (4 meetings) DDay 9/10/2013
OW : "friend" - older, fatter and uglier than me.
Working on R

Posts: 52 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: usa
MrsDoubtfire
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Default  Posted: 3:27 AM, January 25th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


BS(Me) FWH(Him) DDay 05.09
A went underground. True R 02.10
I won't let another woman reap the benefit of enjoying the man my H has now become†

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