I read things like this and it just scares the hell out of me in this 'wonderful' world of dating I find myself in now.
Oh I completely feel you, mandan. I guess the part that bothers me the most is I really felt like he was a "safe" guy. The one that I talk to about everything, no holds barred. The fact that I wasn't safe with him, makes me very wary of what else may be out there. One step forward, two steps back. LOL