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User Topic: Makes me sad ...
Sadjacey
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Member # 41655
Default  Posted: 2:28 AM, January 26th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

... when we are together, everything is ok, and the knowledge of what he did ambushes me. Often when we are out somewhere, can't cry, just have to swallow the emotions again.


Me: BS 59
WH: 60
Married 39 years
Together more than 40
Porn use known since 2005
DDay: 11.24.12 - found emails to prostitute,
Disclosure: TT for months. Still not sure whether I have it all.
DDay 2: 2.20 2014 phone, txt to same prostitute found

Posts: 138 | Registered: Dec 2013
kansas1968
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Member # 32214
Default  Posted: 3:01 AM, January 26th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, after all of the emotions on this roller-coaster ride from hell, I think that sadness is the actual winner. We go through rage, indignation, sorrow, sadness, fear, incredulity, anger, devastation, on and on..but the final thing we are left with is sadness.

When my husbads affair started we had been married over 30 years. We are still together but nothing will ever really be the same and that is truly very sad.

So sorry you are dealing with this. Thank God women are strong. We damned well better be.


Me - BS
Him - FWS
DD - December 14, 2010
Married 43 years 1/14/2011
Affair lasted 7+ years
Affair had been over for 2 years before I found out. OW sent me a letter.

Posts: 1311 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Kansas
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 2:35 PM, January 26th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Sadjacey)))

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