I agree, and I explained that to him.
I NEVER thought he'd do it to begin with...so him saying it now means absolutely nothing.
I think him wanting to pretend it never happened is a defense mechanism. If he doesn't dwell on it, then he doesn't have to deal with the awful things he did.
Its selfish really. It's not like I can forget it ever happened. And I told him that. I'm stuck with these thoughts forever, so why should I be the only one suffering?
I guess everyone deals in their own way...which is why I believe the R path is different for everyone.
Maybe I'm just naive, but I choose to believe that my WBF IS that great guy I fell in love with, he just made a terrible mistake.
I've always said that EVERYONE is capable of cheating, or stealing, or murder even.
It just takes the right circumstances in your life, and how you choose to deal with them.Always know if the juice is worth the squeeze...
Together 7 years
DDay: June 24, 2013