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sadone29
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Default  Posted: 8:26 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, I'm so sorry. (((movingforward777)))


"I move slow and steady, but I feel like a waterfall."

Posts: 625 | Registered: Mar 2013
sinsof thefather
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Default  Posted: 8:32 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry for your loss ((movingforward777))


...second star to the right and straight on till morning.

Posts: 1839 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: UK
itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 10:02 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm praying for your family.

Posts: 3308 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 10:05 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers going out to you and your family.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 51567 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
hexed
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Default  Posted: 10:05 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((movingforward777)) i'm so sorry you lost your mum. Prayers for you and your family


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8407 | Registered: Apr 2008
Going_Under
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Default  Posted: 10:09 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((movingforward777)))

My dad died of pneumonia in December. I miss him terribly and it was awful to see him suffer so much. I am so very sorry for your loss.


BS 42 (Me)
FWH 45
M 23 years
Three Children ages 20, 17, and 8
D-Day 08/10/2004, 7-Year LTA that ended 4 months before D-Day.

Evil never thinks it's evil, it always has a really good reason. ~ Joan of Arcadia, TV Series


Posts: 4558 | Registered: Aug 2006 | From: Pacific Northwest
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 10:14 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh my, I'm so sorry. ((((HUGS)))


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9317 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 10:34 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"What we have once enjoyed, we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes part of us." -Helen Keller

My sincere condolences on the loss of your beloved Mum, movingforward.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9415 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
BAB61
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Default  Posted: 10:37 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Condolences to you, your family & friends. (((Movingforward777))) Sending prayers your way!


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
movingforward777
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Default  Posted: 11:16 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"What we have once enjoyed, we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes part of us." -Helen Keller

Thank you Sister...I have been thinking about what I am going to say on Saturday...this is a really good place to start....

Thank you all for all the love, prayers and support...it means the world to me...HUGS


You can't reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday's junk.......Louise Smith

Posts: 4830 | Registered: Apr 2005 | From: Ontario
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 11:18 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, I am so sorry to hear about this. My deepest sympathy for you and your family.


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

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ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 11:29 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry for your loss.

Mum's are special people.

(((movingforward777)))


AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21032 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 2:04 PM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm very sorry for your loss and the rest of your family's loss.


fBH (me) - 65+, fWW (her) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 9773 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 2:25 PM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sister, what a beautiful quote.

(((Moving))

My lovely mum left at 90, and she is with me every day.

You will always have her near with that much love in your hearts.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17176 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
cass
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Default  Posted: 5:15 PM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so very sorry for your loss. My beautiful wee mum was called away too

Take comfort from knowing you were given to a unique and wonderful woman. They live on in us and she lives on in you.

(((movingforward777)))


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!


Posts: 4960 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 6:23 PM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((moving)))

Your mum and dad are proud, and happy that you can appreciate that they are back together.

May your positive memories provide you peace and comfort.

(((and strength)))


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 7837 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
hurting2much
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Default  Posted: 6:43 PM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((movingforward))). So sorry about your loss


Divorced

Posts: 1101 | Registered: Sep 2009
somanyyears
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Default  Posted: 6:51 PM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


..

..prayers sent to you and family during this sad time of loss.

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4103 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
deeplysad
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Default  Posted: 12:56 AM, January 29th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((moving)))

I'm so very sorry for your loss.


Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert


Posts: 3215 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: So Calif
HurtsButImOK
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Default  Posted: 2:14 AM, January 29th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry for the loss to you and your family.

My Dad passed away over thirteen years ago, and yesterday I felt him come and take Mum with him.

^^ that is so beautiful. To have a love so pure and true that even death does not keep you separate from the other half of your soul. Together again.


Me: Awesome - 35

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou

"When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be". –


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