We talked about how it was important that he take the time that day to make me feel special,that I want there to be no room for even thoughts of the OW,I just want him to focus on us.
You talked about this last week?
I would expect he would remember, especially if you explained to him what you need.
I wouldn't want to have to remind him again, he should be making note of it's importance and do what you asked.
I expect my husband to step up when I have expressed my needs. It takes a lot to open up to someone and be vulnerable.
But you have to do what is comfortable for you.Do you want to tell him again? Remind him? Will it be telling to you if he does forget?
I hope he respects your needs and is prepared to help you through this day.
Be good to you. (((hugs)))