You know what, I don't know if I have a question here. This just royally, royally sucks.
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart, wait for The Lord.
That was a very sobering moment for him. I hope that this gets through to your WW.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Keep solace in the fact that they know you did the honorable thing in separating.
To be honest, after a while I slowly made contact less and less. Without the connection to my ex we had less and less to talk about. It was just a natural drifting apart.
WH comes from a large family....MIL and FIL are gone now. I always made the effort to stay in touch since we live so far away not WH. I no longer make that effort...I leave it up to WH. Everyone knows something is wrong and meetings are strained if I am there. However, I have known WH and family most of my life so we muddle through and I don't feel bad about any of it.
I would still do anything I could for any of my in-laws, but WH's choices have freed me up to put my family first and I am doing so for the first time ever. Perhaps this is true for you, too?
I think I would assume blood supports blood, especially in the early days. The passage of time may enable you to maintain some contact with her family members and perhaps some relationship. I hope so if this is what you want.
"Death is not the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live."
The worst thing about being lied to is knowing you're not wor
So I will probably lose most of my support in our home area bc my family lives 4 hr away. They won't believe what he has done and will blame me,... That is what happened to wife 1
After dday, I reached out to MIL. She never responded because he had asked them not to contact me. Essentially I lost his whole family after 11 years.
The only person who reached out was his grandmother, and she passed over the summer. She told me once I was family, I would always be family to her.
It was heartbreaking, but it doesn't always have go that way. I've seen people reunite with the Ex's family after some time has passed.