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User Topic: So, uh...we bought a house
bluelady
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Default  Posted: 1:43 PM, January 29th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We closed on the house this morning. This is a first house for both of us and it's kind of surreal. We were over this afternoon and it still felt like we were snooping around someone else's house.


Me (BS): 35

Divorced


Posts: 1456 | Registered: Jun 2006 | From: a little bit of everywhere
foreverempty
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Member # 34426
Default  Posted: 2:19 PM, January 29th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome. Congratulations!


Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.

Posts: 622 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: United Kingdom
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 3:59 PM, January 29th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25696 | Registered: Aug 2011
somanyyears
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Member # 26970
Default  Posted: 4:14 PM, January 29th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


..welcome to the "I own a big fat mortgage" club.

..sure beats throwing away rent money every month!!

..congrats, and try paying them one extra month each year. It will shave off huge amounts at the other end.

..keep those rain gutters clean..

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4129 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 4:25 PM, January 29th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!

I completely agree with SMY.
Take one payment, divide by twelve and apply that extra bit to your principal each month.
You can have your house paid off years earlier!

Oh...and get to know your local Home Depot (hardware store) VERY well!


Me - 42
SorryInSac (WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Stick a fork in me...

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

I edit often for clarity.


Posts: 6520 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 4:26 PM, January 29th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh...and avoid HGTV like the plague.


Me - 42
SorryInSac (WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Stick a fork in me...

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

I edit often for clarity.


Posts: 6520 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 11:47 PM, January 29th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 770 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
roseguide
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Default  Posted: 5:50 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!!

Congratulations! Love hearing the happy stories.

[This message edited by roseguide at 5:50 PM, January 30th (Thursday)]


In the end, only three things matter: how much you loved, how gently you lived, and how gracefully you let go of the things not meant for you. Buddhist saying

Posts: 209 | Registered: May 2012 | From: New Jersey
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 6:27 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!

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