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User Topic: Help, help! I think he abused my little girl!!
Skan
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Default  Posted: 11:05 AM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope that you can feel all of our arms around you, during this horrible, indescribable time. (((hugs)))


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4084 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 11:10 AM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're doing the right thing, Sorc.
I'm glad that the police are treating you both with respect and taking your concerns seriously.

Regardless of how this turns out, your DD will remember that you believed her and that you took action.

{{{hugs}}}


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OCyL6pa_L4M


Posts: 7235 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
Sparkle0504
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Default  Posted: 11:26 AM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm with Gonnabe on that one.

I'm in the UK too and the police take a bit of a knocking from time to time, but when it comes to something like this, they know what they're doing and your little girl is in safe hands.

(((Thinking of you and your little family)))


Me 44 (BS)
Him 51 (SAWH)
DDay (too many to mention), but 1st 06/2011
Children - two, mine from my previous marriage
Together...just

You're braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think (A A Milne)


Posts: 129 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: England
Twitchy
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Default  Posted: 11:29 AM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorceress, the people who do these types of interviews are a special breed. They,re pros who take a lot of training and have a lot of experiences interpreting what kids say and what they don't say. Have confidence. You'll know more soon.


BH(me)-47, FWW-41,
D-Day #1 - Oct 2007 - On-Line EA leading to a failed rendez-vous
D-Day #2 - Nov 2008 - In person EA caught early.

Dies irae. Dies illa solvet saeclum in favilla.


Posts: 575 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Ontario - Canada
Lalagirl
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Default  Posted: 11:32 AM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((Sorceress & DD))))))))

Sending both of you strength & hugs...


Me - 48; FWH - 50
Married 30 years 9/2/13
2 grown daughters-30 & 26
4yo GS & 14 mo. GD & GB #4 due 8/14(DD30) and 2yo GD(DD26). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.

Posts: 4802 | Registered: May 2007
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:40 AM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Sorceress & DD))))


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


Posts: 22557 | Registered: Aug 2011
megs56
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Default  Posted: 1:36 PM, February 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Sorceress & DD))))

Thinking of both of you


Me: BGF - 29
Him: WBF - 32

I broke up with him and now I am trying to heal.

Hurt me with the truth, but never comfort me with a lie.


Posts: 118 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Sacramento, Ca
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 2:01 PM, February 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Sorceress & DD))))

Sending strength your way.

((((Sorceress & DD))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...

Posts: 2498 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
Getting to Happy
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Default  Posted: 3:04 PM, February 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your doing what is best for your little one. She will remember your wanting to protect her.

Take care my dear. Strength and hugs to you both.


WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...

Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
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