Topic: Broke N/C
Member # 21851
| Posted: 7:40 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014|
Well I broke NC today with xGF. Fuck I wish I would have kept my shit together. I guess im feeling a little needy today as I was on my way home from seeing my Attorney for my modification of visitation. I wish I would have stayed strong and just ignored it... This is the xGF who sent me the NYE txt...
"Pain is weakness leaving the body"
Reformed BS 39 xWW 34
Two kids 5 and 2
Posts: 951 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: NW
Member # 31349
| Posted: 7:45 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014|
We all have weak days.
Can you go back to NC now? If you're here it means you want support to shut it down.
I bow to those who keep their hearts open when it is most difficult, those who refuse to keep their armor on any longer than they have to, those who recognize the courage at the heart of vulnerability. - Jeff Brown
Posts: 17328 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Member # 34543
| Posted: 8:12 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014|
I broke mine today, too. Only sort of, but I still wish I hadn't done it.
I'm right here with you. Back on the saddle for the both of us!
D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12
Posts: 459 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: California
Member # 22722
| Posted: 8:39 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014|
Been there done that. It's like dieting. Sometimes you binge. Can't undo it. Just restart. NC NC NC
BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.
Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.
Posts: 1182 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
Member # 20849
| Posted: 8:48 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014|
It's okay. We've all done it.
You were feeling bad and you needed the support today and we all have our vulnerable moments. Don't sweat it.
I wish I would have stayed strong and just ignored it.You're allowed to feel sad and needy sometimes. I suspect you're human like the rest of us. Hang in there and just keep moving forward....((((hugs))))
[This message edited by NaiveAgain at 8:49 PM, January 30th (Thursday)]
Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.
Posts: 15227 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
Member # 29530
| Posted: 1:28 PM, January 31st (Friday), 2014|
Just restart NC. As everyone has said we all do it.
Posts: 77 | Registered: Sep 2010 | From: SE England, UK
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