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User Topic: Weekend
tesla
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Cool  Posted: 8:06 AM, February 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This weekend gets the sunglasses. Not because it's warm here or anything...actually we are getting 2-5 inches of snow/ice/sleet...take your freaking pick.

t/j: (can I jack my own thread?)
So yesterday was my b-day. For the first time in over 10 years, I was sung happy birthday to! And by a quirk, my students found out it was my b-day the day before...so yesterday they brought me cards and two of them even got me little gifts. Very sweet.
end of my own t/j.

After school played in the staff vs. 8th grade basket ball game...stands were packed. No kid can outrun/outsprint this 36 year old! Holy ego kibbles.
Took Teslet out for dinner before his dad picked him up. Then headed out for drinks with coworkers.

Today, back to normal. Cleaning, laundry, coursework. Maybe going to see a local band this evening.

Tomorrow I'd like to get out shopping...more coursework...then off to rescue Teslet from the bowels of chaos.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4732 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
phmh
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Default  Posted: 8:14 AM, February 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy birthday tesla!

Last night my plans got canceled due to the weather, so I stayed home drinking beer and relaxing.

My friend canceled on our morning run today due to snow (even though she owns yaktrax and it's a relatively warm 18) so now I'm trying to motivate myself to go alone.

Then a coffee and movie second date. Then dinner/fundraiser at the nature center where I volunteer, though I may bail on that since I hate driving in bad weather.

Tomorrow is running with a (reliable) friend, then a basketball game and late lunch with my parents. Finally, I'll be missing the superbowl to go to a concert with some friends.

Yet another too-short weekend.

And happy birthday again :)


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny


Posts: 3456 | Registered: Dec 2011
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 8:31 AM, February 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy birthday Tesla!


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13855 | Registered: Jul 2011
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 8:45 AM, February 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy birthday
My weekend is cleaning my house then cleaning my Dad's house today. Super Bowl at Dad's tomorrow. That is the extent of my weekend plans


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1800 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:10 AM, February 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday, tesla!


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 26117 | Registered: Aug 2011
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 11:16 AM, February 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday Badass!


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17684 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 11:21 AM, February 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy birthday!!


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7811 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 11:35 AM, February 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

HAppy Birthday to you Tesla!!!


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2611 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 2:25 PM, February 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy birthday, Tesla!

Friday: Working
Saturday: Working
Sunday: Possibly working (new time management system and I don't trust it to work properly on my home computer.)

Bleh. Not much of a weekend.


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20426 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 2:36 PM, February 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

well Happy Birthday Tesla!!

I am having my very first "kid-less" weekend in 7 months...

after dropping off my dd13 at the airport last night a friend asked me to join her for drinks (she was with a big group) and to hear our favorite cover band. YES!

I went, danced my ass off.. and had a blast! So much fun! I didn't realize how many single people there are out there, and many of them should NOT be wearing certain things or drinking so much if you know what I mean.

I was hit on by a "kid" - who told me he didn't mind that I was 16 years older than he is.. sadly for him, I did mind! No thank you young pup. But the ego boost was nice anyway. His friends did not believe me when I told them I am 43. Ha! My friends thought it was hilarious. Thankfully, I had plenty of grown-up men to dance with after that!

Tonight I am going downtown to have dinner for a Girls Night Out - then to see another live band play. So excited!

Tomorrow is a massage and pedicure, then I need to get ready for the work week. Sigh. Kids don't come home until Wednesday (school break for students) so I have dinner plans mixed in!


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3628 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
Bluebird26
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Default  Posted: 8:10 PM, February 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday Tesla


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

Posts: 1376 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
h0peless
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Default  Posted: 10:04 PM, February 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday, Tesla!

I spent the WHOLE day today moving into my new house. I won't actually sleep there until Wednesday night because the gas won't be turned on until then and I'm fond of hot showers. The house is absolutely amazing, though.

Tomorrow is my Grandma's 87th birthday. I'm baking her a cake and we're having a huge family gathering for her at my aunt's house. I'm looking forward to sleeping in most, though.


Posts: 1799 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
Random thoughts
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Default  Posted: 10:53 PM, February 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday to you! Happy Birthday to you! HAPPY BIRTHDAY Dear TESLAS! !!!! Happy Birthday to you! And many more!

Sung in autotune because this gal sounds like two squirrels fighting a death match.


Those three words are said too much and not enough.
Chasing Cars-Snow Patrol.
FWW

Posts: 1612 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Some where in New Jersey
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 11:59 PM, February 1st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday Tesla.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3467 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
newlysingle
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Default  Posted: 12:31 AM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday, Tesla!

This weekend started on a high and is ending on a low. Last night, I went out with a friend for drinks/dinner. She then went shopping with me to pick out a new laptop for my class that starts in March. We had a great time, but I ended up not feeling well when we got home and slept really crappy because of it.

Then, this morning, I go to take a shower and the shower starts backing up into the shower in the other bathroom. Not good. So, I call the plumber and he says it's clog in the main sewer line. Tries to unclog it and ends up pulling up a bunch of roots. Not good at all. So I have a semi-working water/sewer system and the plumber will be coming back on Monday with a camera to see what's going on. Either way, it won't be cheap. I had a mini breakdown as money has been tight lately.

I guess the only good news is that I called the Gnat (we still own the house together) and he's agreed to pay the repair no matter how much. He said if it's over $5,000 we will just have to agree in writing that he can get half of that back when we sell the home. All of this is making realize that we may just have to do that as it might just be too costly to keep.

Tomorrow, I plan to do a hike and go to a Superbowl party even though I hate football. Hopefully, they have some good food.


BW - Me (38)
XWH -The Gnat
OW - Hello Kitty the Whore Engaged to the Gnat. I hear the white trash, wedding bells as we speak.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (7), 1 DS (2)
Dday 3/13
Happily Divorced 9/20/13

Posts: 955 | Registered: Mar 2013
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 4:52 AM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Belated Happy Birthday, Tesla! I'm glad you had a birthday dinner with your favorite 'man'.


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2463 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
cmego
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Default  Posted: 6:34 AM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday!


me...BS, 44 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced


Posts: 4215 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
Bebba1171
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Default  Posted: 10:10 AM, February 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday Tesla!


Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 52 (Me) / XWW 50 - ages back in 2011
Two great kids that don't deserve this!

Posts: 727 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: USA
myowndystopia
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Default  Posted: 5:12 PM, February 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Belated birthday Tesla! Thought I would wonder into new beginnings a little and see what is in my future! Thank you for your encouraging words and advice on the various forums!


Me- BS
Him - WS (the Grub)
married 28 years/4 kids(mostly grown)

"'Cause there's a side to you that I never knew, never knew.
All the things you'd say, they were never true, never true "
Set Fire to the Rain
Adele


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