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User Topic: What was your wedding song
LA44
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Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

At Last by Etta James. Awesome moment bc no one saw that song coming.

Now I would chose, Nobody knows me like my baby by Lyle Lovett. I think....

[This message edited by LA44 at 2:53 PM, February 2nd (Sunday)]


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2211 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
Frankie80
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Default  Posted: 3:31 PM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Our amazing live band sang Lets Stay Together by Al Green.
It was such a special moment


Me BW
Him WH
Married 5yrs, together 8
DS & DD
DDay 1 18.07.13, 7month PA co-worker
DDay 2 29.09.2013 (continued EA, kissed once)
Working on R

Posts: 75 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: UK
Scubachick
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Default  Posted: 4:01 PM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


We've Only Just Begun by The Carpenters (1972)

That was my parent's wedding song too!


Posts: 629 | Registered: Jul 2013
Scubachick
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Member # 39906
Default  Posted: 4:05 PM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Because you loved me.....by Celine Dion
For all those times you stood by me
For all the truth that you made me see
For all the joy you brought to my life
For all the wrong that you made right
For every dream you made come true
For all the love I found in you
I'll be forever thankful baby
You're the one who held me up
Never let me fall
You're the one who saw me through through it all

You were my strength when I was weak
You were my voice when I couldn't speak
You were my eyes when I couldn't see
You saw the best there was in me
Lifted me up when I couldn't reach
You gave me faith coz you believed
Em everything I am
Because you loved me

You gave me wings and made me fly
You touched my hand I could touch the sky
I lost my faith, you gave it back to me
You said no star was out of reach
You stood by me and I stood tall
I had your love I had it all
I'm grateful for each day you gave me
Maybe I don't know that much
But I know this much is true
I was blessed because I was loved by you

You were my strength when I was weak
You were my voice when I couldn't speak
You were my eyes when I couldn't see
You saw the best there was in me
Lifted me up when I couldn't reach
You gave me faith coz you believed
I'm everything I am
Because you loved me

You were always there for me
The tender wind that carried me
A light in the dark shining your love into my life
You've been my inspiration
Through the lies you were the truth
My world is a better place because of you

You were my strength when I was weak
You were my voice when I couldn't speak
You were my eyes when I couldn't see
You saw the best there was in me
Lifted me up when I couldn't reach
You gave me faith coz you believed
I'm everything I am
Because you loved me

You were my strength when I was weak
You were my voice when I couldn't speak
You were my eyes when I couldn't see
You saw the best there was in me
Lifted me up when I couldn't reach
You gave me faith coz you believed
I'm everything I am
Because you loved me

I'm everything I am
Because you loved me


Posts: 629 | Registered: Jul 2013
Vulcanized
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Default  Posted: 4:23 PM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ike Turner Keep on Loving Me Baby
(original by Otis Rush)

Well I want you to love me.
Well I want you to love me.
Well I want you to love me.

Whoa yeah
Whoah yeah
Whoah baby
You know what pleases me

Well I want you to kiss me
Well I want you to kiss me
Well I want you to kiss me

Whoa yeah
Whoah yeah
Whoah baby
You know what pleases me
You know what pleases me!

Early in the morning
Any time at night
Well I can feel your tender lips
Making me feel alright

Keep on loving me girl
Ahow how how
Keep on loving me baby
Whoa yeah
Whoa yeah
Whoa baby
You know what pleases me

Early in the morning
Any time at night
Well I can feel your tender lips
Making me feel alright

Keep on loving me girl
Ahow how how
Keep on loving me baby
Whoa yeah
Whoa yeah
Whoa baby
You know what pleases me

Video of the original: http://youtu.be/YjwuJ_ekhOY


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
-----------------------------------------------------------
Everything is as it should be.

Posts: 738 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
brokendancer7
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Default  Posted: 4:41 PM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We didn't have a big wedding or reception, so there was no song. We just wanted to be married, so we could live together and be together, etc. We got married in my parents' living room. After my mother died, we bought my parents' house, which is where we live. H had sex with OW on the living room floor - don't want to know where, exactly, but wherever, it is only feet from where we said our marriage vows.

(Edited because I forgot this was the R forum)

[This message edited by brokendancer7 at 4:46 PM, February 2nd (Sunday)]


Me: BS - 58
Him: WS - 56
Married 34 yrs

Latest DD - April 2013, PA


Posts: 186 | Registered: Jul 2013
Lyonesse
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Default  Posted: 4:43 PM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just the Two of Us - Bill Withers

Somebody can't count.


Me: BS, 40's.

Posts: 1794 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: West Coast
musiclovingmom
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Member # 38207
Default  Posted: 5:58 PM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We got married 3 days after dday. We had this song picked out before our wedding, but after he had ended it with OW5 (we are serious procrastinators). I tried to think of the song (and our wedding in general) as the point in time when we knowingly and willingly made a commitment to each other at the same level.
Kenny Chesney - Me and You

Ordinary, no
Really don't think so
Not a love this true
Common destiny
We were meant to be
Me and you

Like a perfect scene
From a movie screen
We're a dream come true
Suited perfectly
For eternity
Me and you

Everyday, I need you even more
And the nighttime too
There's no way I could ever let you go
Even if I wanted to

Everyday I live
Try my best to give
All I have to you
Thank the stars above
That we share this love
Me and you

Everyday, I need you even more
And the nighttime too
There's no way I could ever let you go
Even if I wanted to

Ordinary, no
Really don't think so
Just a precious few
Ever make it last
Get as lucky as
Me and you
Me and you


Posts: 1039 | Registered: Jan 2013
Skan
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Default  Posted: 5:59 PM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"I'm Going to Go Back There Someday," by the Great Gonzo.

This looks familiar, vaguely familiar,
Almost unreal, yet, it's too soon to feel yet.
Close to my soul, yet so far away.
I'm going to go back there someday.

Sun rises, night falls, sometimes the sky calls.
Is that a song there, and do I belong there?
I've never been there, but I know the way.
I'm going to go back there someday.

Come and go with me, it's more fun to share,
We'll both be completely at home in midair.
We're flyin', not walkin', on featherless wings.
We can hold onto love like invisible strings.

There's not a word yet for old friends who've just met.
Part heaven, part space, or have I found my place?
You can just visit, but I plan to stay.
I'm going to go back there someday.
I'm going to go back there someday.


That used to be our saying, there's not a word yet, for old friends, who've just met. We're reclaiming that. Bit by bit.


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4671 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
debbysbaby
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Default  Posted: 8:02 PM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I used to love this band. I guess their name, Restless Heart was fitting...and the fact that they broke up, too.

Restless Heart- I'll Still Be Loving You

Changin my life... with your love
has been so easy for you
And I'm amazed
Every day
And I'll need you....

Till all the mountains are valleys
and every ocean is dry
My love.....

I'll be yours until the sun doesn't shine
Till time stands still
until the winds don't blow
When today is just a memory to me
I know.....
I'll still be loving
I'll still be loving
You
I'll still be loving you

Never Before..
did I know
How loving someone could be
Now I can see
You and Me
For a lifetime

Until the last moon is rising
you'll see the love in my eyes
My Love....

I'll be yours until the sun doesn't shine
Till time stands still
until the winds don't blow
When today is just a memory to me
I know.....
I'll still be loving
I'll still be loving
You


I'll be yours until the sun doesn't shine
Till time stands still
until the winds don't blow
When today is just a memory to me
I know.....
I'll still be loving
I'll still be loving
You

I'll still be loving you.
I'll still be loving..I'll still be loving you...
I'll still be loving..I'll still be loving you...
I'll still be loving..I'll still be loving you...


-betrayed almost my whole almost 15 yr marriage
-divorced since 2004

Posts: 854 | Registered: Aug 2011
Rebreather
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Member # 30817
Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Just the Two of Us - Bill Withers
Somebody can't count.

I'm sorry, but LMAO.


Ours was Unchained Melody by The Righteous Brothers? I joke that it should have been Nirvana's All Apologies.

[This message edited by Rebreather at 9:18 PM, February 2nd (Sunday)]


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6347 | Registered: Jan 2011
Yakamishi
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Member # 38230
Default  Posted: 7:37 AM, February 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Dont' know much" by Linda Rhondstat and Aaron Neville

Look at this face
I know the years are showing
Look at this life
I still don't know where it's going

I don't know much
But I know I love you
And that may be
All I need to know

Look at these eyes
They've never see what matters
Look at these dreams
So beaten and so battered

I don't know much
But I know I love you
And that may be
All I need to know

So many questions
Still left unanswered
So much I've never broken through

And when I feel you near me
Sometimes I see so clearly
The only truth I've ever known
Is me and you

Look at this man
So blessed with inspiration
Look at this soul
Still searching for salvation

I don't know much
But I know I love you
And that may be
All I need to know

I don't know much
But I know I love you
And that may be
All I need to know

I don't know much
But I know I love you
And that may be
All I need to know.


Me: BH
Her: WW Mrs.yaka
Kids:4
Variouse clues to EA. WW promised it would stop.
D-Day of EA 9/13/2012 2:01PM found 2 yrs of text messages, confessed to EA
D-Day of PA: confessed on 9/22/12 11:53 PM. Worst moment of my life

Posts: 214 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Massachusetts
wert
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Default  Posted: 7:41 AM, February 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Come on Eileen - Dexys Midnight Runners -

I should have known...

Truly - Ain't Even Done with the Night - John Mellencamp

Still makes me tear up....

take care...



Posts: 1425 | Registered: Jan 2012
OnAnIsland
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Default  Posted: 7:58 AM, February 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's very clear
Our love is here to stay ;
Not for a year
But ever and a day.

The radio and the telephone
And the movies that we know
May just be passing fancies,
And in time may go !

But, oh my dear,
Our love is here to stay.
Together we're
Going a long, long way

In time the Rockies may crumble,
Gibraltar may tumble,
They're only made of clay,
But our love is here to stay.

[This message edited by OnAnIsland at 7:58 AM, February 3rd (Monday)]


D-day: Christmas 2011
D-day 2: 3/28/2013

Married for over 15 years
2 beautiful boys in elementary school

You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. Maya Angelou


Posts: 1478 | Registered: Dec 2011
creativecat
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Default  Posted: 8:01 AM, February 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Everything I Do, I Do It For You" by Bryan Adams

(theme song from the Kevin Costner Robin Hood movie)

Look into my eyes you will see
What you mean to me.
Search your heart, search your soul
And when you find me there you'll search no more.

Don't tell me it's not worth tryin' for.
You can't tell me it's not worth dyin' for.
You know it's true:
Everything I do, I do it for you.

Look into your heart you will find
There's nothin' there to hide.
Take me as I am, take my life.
I would give it all, I would sacrifice.

Don't tell me it's not worth fightin' for
I can't help it, there's nothin' I want more
You know it's true:
Everything I do, I do it for you, oh, yeah.

There's no love like your love
And no other could give more love.
There's nowhere unless you're there
All the time, all the way, yeah.

Look into your heart, baby...

Oh, you can't tell me it's not worth tryin' for.
I can't help it, there's nothin' I want more.

Yeah, I would fight for you, I'd lie for you,
Walk the wire for you, yeah, I'd die for you.

You know it's true:
Everything I do, oh, I do it for you.

Everything I do, darling.
You will see it's true.
You will see it's true.
Yeah!
Search your heart and your soul
You can't tell it's not worth dying for
I'll be there
I'd walk the fire for you
I'd die for you
Oh, yeah.


Posts: 87 | Registered: Dec 2013
Bobbi_sue
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Default  Posted: 8:11 AM, February 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Never had a "song" with my first H, but I do remember our band at the reception, was a great band, and for some reason the only particular song I remember them playing was "Heaven is Just a Sin Away" (A 70's cheating song by the Kendalls). What kind of foreshadowing was that???

Posts: 5711 | Registered: Apr 2006
spinning73
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Default  Posted: 8:37 AM, February 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have I Told You Lately That I Love You---Rod Stewart

Reading the lyrics now, the "no one else above you" line stings a bit.


Have I told you lately that I love you?
Have I told you there's no one else above you?
Fill my heart with gladness
Take away all my sadness
Ease my troubles that's what you do

For the morning sun in all its glory
Greets the day with hope and comfort too
You fill my heart with laughter
And somehow you make it better
Ease my troubles that's what you do

There's a love that's divine
And it's yours and it's mine like the sun
And at the end of the day
We should give thanks and pray
To the one, to the one

Have I told you lately that I love you?
Have I told you there's no one else above you?
Fill my heart with gladness
Take away all my sadness
Ease my troubles that's what you do

There's a love that's divine
And it's yours and it's mine like the sun
And at the end of the day
We should give thanks and pray
To the one, to the one

And have I told you lately that I love you?
Have I told you there's no one else above you?
You fill my heart with gladness
Take away my sadness
Ease my troubles that's what you do

Take away all my sadness
Fill my life with gladness
Ease my troubles that's what you do
Take away all my sadness
Fill my life with gladness
Ease my troubles that's what you do

Songwriters
VAN MORRISON


me-BS 40
WH-40
Together 23 years, married 17 years
DDs-11 and 8, DS 7
4 month EA/PA ended by WH 2 months before
DD-4/14/13
Hoping this recovery is real...

Posts: 42 | Registered: Jun 2013
Tred
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Member # 34086
Default  Posted: 9:06 AM, February 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If I Were a Carpenter - Robert Plant.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 3833 | Registered: Dec 2011
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:12 AM, February 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"I'm Going to Go Back There Someday," by the Great Gonzo.
SKAN!!! This is one of my all time favorites. I got the casette (YES, I'm OLD!) of the Muppet Movie soundtrack for Christmas when the movie came out, and this song just resonated with me. Thank you for knocking loose that memory.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 24737 | Registered: Aug 2011
Bikingguy
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Default  Posted: 9:22 AM, February 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Masterpiece by Atlantic Starr

Of course they also wrote

Secret Lovers

So talk about ying and yang.


Me: BH, 44
Her: WW, 43
D day. January 12, 2013

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