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User Topic: increasing resilience
PhoenixRisen
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Default  Posted: 10:21 AM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is a great Ted talk on how to be more resilience.

Jane McGonigal: The game that can give you 10 extra years of life:
http://www.ted.com/talks/jane_mcgonigal_the_game_that_can_give_you_10_extra_years_of_life.html

In a nutshell, for every one negative thought replace it with 3 positive actions
Physical Action- don't sit still, move
Emotional Action- visual baby animals
Mental Action - count backwards by 7s
Social Action - shake someones hand or send a thank you text


Posts: 485 | Registered: Jun 2012
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Default  Posted: 1:30 PM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love Ted talk - and I'd never seen that one before - thank you PR! She's amazing!


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


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