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User Topic: After years of talking about it.......
lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 11:04 AM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

...I have bit the bullet. Tomorrow, after years of visiting the area and scouring MLS listings, I think I will put in an offer on a country cottage. Eeeeeek!!!!!!!! WHAT AM I DOING???? I've liquidated the assets for a sizable down payment, got pre-approved for a small mortgage, and am ready to plunge into The County-- Ontario's Prince Edward County, that is. Wineries, the Art Trail, nearby access to the massive sand dunes of Sandbanks Provincial Park......you wanna bet I will soon discover friends I never knew I had?

I'm a bit scared of the idea of two residences, when I barely have time for one, but I believe it's the right thing. It's where I want to retire, the real estate market is set to boom (all the signs are there) and there's no time like the present to snap up something reasonably priced. If I get it, there's a screened sun porch to keep bugs at bay, a small pool to practice your laps, and lots of good land for a vegetable patch. So......wish me luck (and mojo) as I dip my toe into Ontario's fastest growing vacation playland. And come and visit me at the cottage!


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


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scarednbroken
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Default  Posted: 11:41 AM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck!!! It sounds absolutely heavenly! I would like to retire in CA wine country.... Or Italy. but that won't be in my card for sure. Lol. But your little slice of heaven....

How exciting, my friend!


BS: Me 44 WH: 50 Kids: 13, 15, 17, 28 DD: every yr Ow: tons Status: fed-up. A woman should never invest in a relationship she wouldn't want for her daughter, nor should she allow any man to treat her in a way she would scold her son for

Posts: 417 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Midwest
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Default  Posted: 11:42 AM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's so cool!
Congrats!


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SorryInSac - WH#2 - 40s. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4yrs, together 7yrs total

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids (4 Dogs, 2 Cats)

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
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Posts: 6339 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
lemony.2008
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Default  Posted: 12:54 PM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, sounds like a beautiful place!

Not to mention your granddaughters who would definitely love it there!

Btw, how far is it from T.O?

Good luck!


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Posts: 2243 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 1:26 PM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good Luck!!! Sounds wonderful!


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DS - 12
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Posts: 24444 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
somanyyears
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Default  Posted: 1:57 PM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


..

..Lynn.. congrats.. it will be the best decision you ever made.. what's 'NOT' to like about a cottage???

..as long as you don't mind 'a few bugs'

can't wait to see pics..

smy


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Posts: 4119 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
BAB61
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Default  Posted: 3:13 PM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nice ... sounds lovely!


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S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

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lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 4:55 PM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, everyone.

No water frontage, SMY, alas. Lemony, it's approx. 2 1/2 hours from Toronto


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


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LifeIsBroken
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Default  Posted: 5:31 PM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

GOOD FOR YOU, Lynnm ! I love 'success stories.'


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XH: 60
Married 34 yrs, LIBerated: 2/17/11
MOW: 50 (she said she wanted a sugar daddy; xh said, "I'M HIM!")
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kernel
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Default  Posted: 5:40 PM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats, sounds wonderful! Future G2G?


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somanyyears
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Default  Posted: 6:04 PM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


..Lynn, you said there was a small pool???

..hey, that counts as water frontage

good luck..

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


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Default  Posted: 6:16 PM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats lynnm. Looking forward to seeing pictures too.


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lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My grandkids really would love this place. There's a small outbuilding that would make a perfect playhouse.


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


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Default  Posted: 1:15 AM, February 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds wonderful! Tons of luck and mojo!!


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Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 4:05 AM, February 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds amazing...so happy for you!!


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Lola2kids
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Default  Posted: 8:02 AM, February 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds absolutely lovely.
Sand Banks is a great Provincial Park.


BS: (Me) 47
Kids: twins DD(10)
WS: Him 49 (Together 12 years)
D-Day April 18, 2011, Him:out Sept. 11, 2011..moved June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

Posts: 1364 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
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Default  Posted: 9:08 AM, February 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats Lynn! Sounds great.


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TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 10:39 AM, February 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's beautiful!!!


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Jeaniegirl
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Default  Posted: 7:00 PM, February 3rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hope it's up by Lake Muskoka! That's where I'd LOVE to own a Canadian get-away !!


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lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 7:57 AM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I didn't get it. I went out there yesterday with my inspector/builder and he threw up so many red flags, I didn't put in an offer. 1) Electrical system is a dog's breakfast. 2) Basement would be impossible to finish because of water issues. Inspector also says I'd have a hard time getting rd of the kitty pee smell. Cats have obviously been peeing on untreated concrete for years. 3) Kitchen (to renovate to my plans) would cost upwards of $50,000. (It's a HUGE kitchen--350 sq. ft.) The lovely screened sun porch's floor has cracks big enough to interest Rob Ford. Sigh. Sigh. SIGH!!!!!!!

I was so tempted to buy it anyway because I fell in love with EVERYTHING (except the strange kitchen layout) on the main level.


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


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