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User Topic: Your thoughts on a trip to Las Vegas
Spelljean
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Default  Posted: 6:49 PM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Even IF my husband wasn't a WH, I STILL wouldn't like the idea. I would go along too, and would insist on a separate room for he and I.

They are not pack wolves. They do not need guy's weekends. As much as they think they do, they really don't.



WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
Sal1995
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Member # 39099
Default  Posted: 3:45 PM, February 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

They are not pack wolves. They do not need guy's weekends. As much as they think they do, they really don't.

Agree. And up until last year I took yearly guy's weekends, out-of-town. This started years before she betrayed me. Never once cheated on my wife, but it probably didn't send the best message to her about my commitment and desire to be with her and the kids.

Whether you are a man or a woman, at some point we all need to grow up and stop pretending that we're young, single, and on Spring Break.


Me (BS)-45, WW-43
DDay 2/17/13, 9-10 month PA/EA
M - 18 years, 4 children
Reconciling

Posts: 1462 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Texas
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 3:49 PM, February 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hell no! End of story.


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2336 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
OnAnIsland
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Member # 34319
Default  Posted: 4:20 PM, February 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

no, no , no.
glad he figured it out.

you and your m need to be the priority. save those pennies and vacation days for you two.


D-day: Christmas 2011
D-day 2: 3/28/2013

Married for over 15 years
2 beautiful boys in elementary school

You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. Maya Angelou


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