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User Topic: the trouble with triggers
morethantrying
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Default  Posted: 5:40 PM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So you are going along in the morning just doing just fine when something hits you...subtle and you are not even quite aware and then suddenly it is time-warp travel back to the moment of discovery (or there about)...and you know this in your brain, that is it NOT happening again, but your feelings decide to go otherwise...and then comes the "ok, rethinking, all is okay, now, he is not doing that now, it is over, you are fine....man it is exhausting.....


Affairs - hard on us both - but love will win.
Me: BS 55
Him: WS 62
Married 32 yrs.
dday TT from 12/2012-2/2013)...

Posts: 283 | Registered: Sep 2013
AML04
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Default  Posted: 6:23 PM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It f'n sucks!!! I'm so tired of them.


Me-BS Him-WH DS 5/12
T-13 M-9
DDay 5/26/13, TT through 8/13
2.5 yr EA w/co-worker, PA 12/12 to 4/13.
Hopeful for R

Posts: 843 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: MA
hopefulmother
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Default  Posted: 6:30 PM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It is exhausting, but focus on the fact that you have less than when you first found out....


Me-BW 39
WH-39
D-day 9-4-12
Major TT 8-14
Friends for 20yrs dating since 2000
Married 9yrs with 2 toddlers
My wedding band is a symbol of hope, forgiveness, love, and grace.

Posts: 933 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: PA
morethantrying
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Member # 40547
Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

good point hopefulmother!!!!


Affairs - hard on us both - but love will win.
Me: BS 55
Him: WS 62
Married 32 yrs.
dday TT from 12/2012-2/2013)...

Posts: 283 | Registered: Sep 2013
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