I'm always shocked and sad when I read stuff like this when there are children around and having to grow up in such conditions of these types of careless parents. Kudos to you Amber for growing up and becoming a mature and responsible young woman. He obviously isn't mature yet. To me it's a lack of parental responsibility to continue this activity. Personally if it were me, I would be making secret plans to get away from these people and him if he can't grow up. Add in his infidelity (because I assume that's originally what you're here for) to the mix.
Your kids are much more perceptive than you give them credit for. They will know soon what's going on with Dad. And is this where you want to see them in their teenage years...experimenting in your own house with Dad's found stash? I guaranty this will eventually catch up to both of you one day. Him probably more than you. But one day you will regret not stopping this now for your kids sake if you don't. BS(me) 48
1 son 14 yrs old
Married 18 yrs, together 21 yrs
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