We're all broken in some sort of way. Each and everyone of us have experienced trials and tribulations of some sort in life. Some more so than others. I just hate the blame shifting on being "broken". My wife has never been with anyone except for me and the first excuse I was given was "I wondered what it would be like to be with another person".
Now ten months down the road and she says that she needed male attention because of her father didn't pay her enough attention as a child. This has all come out in counseling since DDay. I don't doubt that her father didn't pay her the attention that she deserved when she was a child. I happen to know the man and he is a stand up family man that would give his life for his family without a thought. He is selfless and has sacrificed a hell of a lot to provide for all of them.
I'm sure he didn't do everything right but he damn for sure tried. I'm just really pissed off about this and this thread really hit home with the way I feel about being "broken".