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User Topic: All in the family... unbelievable
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 1:39 PM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When I found my husband's online dating account on AFF (he has seven), I also found my BIL, his middle brother, on the same site. Thank god the picture was of his face

Anyway... I was reading my husband's nephew's twitter timeline (he has posted things about my husband in the past so I periodically check it) and what did I find? His nephew posted that he found his father's okcupid.com account. That's my husband's eldest brother. Guess what else? He's married. Shocker...

So all three of the brothers are on online dating sites and two of them are married.


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 1:55 PM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds like there is lots of FOO issues there.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52682 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 2:33 PM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The stories I could tell... To sum it up, they ALL have that victim mentality.


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 4:01 PM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((sd))))
((((nephew))))


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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Vulcanized
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Default  Posted: 4:39 PM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's really messed up.


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
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Everything is as it should be.

Posts: 767 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 4:40 PM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gross. Hopefully, if there's anything to gain from this, it's a reminder that this has nothing to do with you and everything to do with his dysfunction.

(((sd)))


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17860 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 4:52 PM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks everyone.

Vulcanized, yes, it's really messed up.

Jrazz, I know it has nothing to with me, this is my BIL. He's wicked arrogant.

The only thing I'm struggling with is should I tell his wife? She's been a total bitch to me and my husband. The right thing would be to tell her, but I like not having that family in my life.

I haven't even decided if I should tell my husband. I can only imagine how that conversation would go.


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
whattheh
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Default  Posted: 5:00 PM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If you don't want a hassle but want her to know maybe there's a way you can anonymously point her towards the hookup profiles?


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fWH-late 50's
M 33 T 35
DD-Early 2013 PA 2010
In R but I have PTSD...

Posts: 569 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA
Skan
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Default  Posted: 5:31 PM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Create a new untraceable email address (google it) and forward the links for all of the brothers to their wives. No more drama for you!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 7:43 PM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I feel that I would need more evidence if I was going to do that. I went out to the website and you have to be a member to view profiles. I didn't want to set up a fake account. I did that enough back when I first found out about my husband.

There's only the one wife. It's the three brothers. The eldest, middle, and my husband. The nephew is the son to the eldest brother from his first marriage. My husband thinks his first wife was cheating on him, but he never told his brother. The middle brother had a girlfriend a while ago, but she left him. He's not in a relationship now. Just knowing him I'd be surprised if he would ever be in a relationship again.


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 8:58 PM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know it's your BIL - I just meant that your H is cut from the same cloth as your WH, and it's yet another indicator that he comes from brokentown.


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17860 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 7:47 AM, February 7th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry. I misunderstood.


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
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