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User Topic: Judgment in Replies??
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Default  Posted: 12:59 PM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My first double post.

[This message edited by JustDesserts at 1:00 PM, February 11th (Tuesday)]

2 year EA/PA. DDay 3/12. Broke NC 6/13 w/one stupid 5 line e-mail (which brought me to SI). Me: WH, 50. Her: BW, 49. Married 19 years. Two kids. Dog. Reconciling...together.

Posts: 403 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Suburbia, New England, USA
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Default  Posted: 4:31 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Been a while since I've posted but I just read through this thread.

I try not to come across as judgemental when I post to a newbie. Who am I to judge anyway? I f*cked up just as badly as they had. I have however gone off on a member. Fairly recently too. He'd had an A, his W doesn't know and he was questioning the wisdom of immediate, hard NC. The tone of his posts were straight out of the fog, even though his A was (supposedly) over for 7 years. It was quite clear that he thought he, his A and his AP are "special." After half a dozen of this type of post, I let loose. I apologized to the OP since this was a t/j of her thread and I let DS know what I'd done through PM. It's that type of post that I get "judgemental" on. Otherwise I'll be straight with the poster in a way that shows (I hpoe) that I know where they're coming from. Read it, heard it, used it, whatever.

BH Cee64D - 48
WW (me) - 49

All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.

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Default  Posted: 3:19 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would like this thread in the BS forum. When the WSs speak to each other, you all get to be very real. This is a very interesting thread :)

The stones from my enemies, these wounds will mend
but I cannot survive the roses from my friends

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Default  Posted: 2:59 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump. Doesn't need to be forgotten.

Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

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