Topic: Valentine's Day week
Member # 25041
| Posted: 10:16 AM, February 9th (Sunday), 2014|
Wake me when it's over.
Posts: 1172 | Registered: Aug 2009
Member # 30346
| Posted: 10:41 AM, February 9th (Sunday), 2014|
My ex never made it a big deal anyway…nothing special to me. I just try and make it fun for my kids.
I doubt it will ever be special to me again…it is just a silly holiday.
me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings
Posts: 4142 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
Member # 3075
| Posted: 11:06 AM, February 9th (Sunday), 2014|
Glad I don't have to buy a card or feel obligated to anyone.....
Posts: 305 | Registered: Jan 2004 | From: CA
Member # 34677
| Posted: 11:58 AM, February 9th (Sunday), 2014|
I agree! Probably because my break up is still fresh and I still love the man. Booo.
But instead of being romanced and enjoying spoiling someone else, I'll be in the Walmart Valentine's day aisles searching for the perfect pack of class Valentines a first grade boy would want to hand out.
Posts: 530 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: east coast
Member # 40229
| Posted: 7:51 PM, February 9th (Sunday), 2014|
He never "remembered" Valentine's Day. So each year I would buy myself and then share with him and the kids a whole bunch of chocolate covered strawberries! This year, I don't have to share.
I'm going to get myself a whole bunch of pretty flowers and put them in all of the vases around the house and decorate for me! Well, the cats will enjoy them too!
I'm thinking I might even pick myself up a cute, flirty nightie. Kit cats will enjoy that too when they snuggle up to Mami!
I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
Posts: 2237 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
Member # 14866
| Posted: 7:57 PM, February 9th (Sunday), 2014|
Don't oversleep for Saturday is International 50% off chocolates in heart shaped containers day. (see my PSA in F&G )
Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless
We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.
Posts: 52199 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Member # 35214
| Posted: 8:25 PM, February 9th (Sunday), 2014|
I myself never really cared for Valentine's Day...like one day of someone NOT being an ass is supposed to counter the other 364 in the year...
Then again, 'jaded' is one of the current personality traits on my list of shit to work on in IC...
Me: BS (43)Him: EX, aka "The Dink"(50)
D-Day#1 12/22/11. D-Day#2 5/23/2013.
Divorce final 2/10/14.
Throw me to the wolves and I'll return leading the pack.
Posts: 426 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: North Texas
Member # 35912
| Posted: 8:27 PM, February 9th (Sunday), 2014|
I honestly don't recall one V-Day while married. So I guess they were all not worth remembering. Which is fitting since my ex is too
Countdown to: International 50% off chocolates!!
Posts: 485 | Registered: Jun 2012
Member # 41429
| Posted: 9:01 PM, February 9th (Sunday), 2014|
Looking forward to some cheap chocolate.
Me: BW 30
Posts: 496 | Registered: Nov 2013
Member # 30341
| Posted: 11:40 PM, February 9th (Sunday), 2014|
I think champagne may go on sale on Saturday too!!
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Posts: 3130 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
Member # 33882
| Posted: 7:53 AM, February 10th (Monday), 2014|
I think champagne may go on sale on Saturday too!!
Now that I can get behind! I'm so not a chocolate person but I looooove champagne!
I, too, want this week to be over. I'm so sick of all the stupid, drippy jewelry commercials!!!!
him (NPD Ex)
"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."
Posts: 2589 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
Member # 18222
| Posted: 10:21 AM, February 10th (Monday), 2014|
My best friend's bf (who was living with her!) told her about 4 months ago that he had a new gf and a new job and TX and he'd see her around. It's been a hard few months, and she has a 2 yr old and a 12 yr old.
So...she is my Valentine's Day date. We're getting dressed up fancy and going out to dinner. Aussie's "date" is her 2 yr old daughter and the McDonald's play place. We're celebrating the day, but, not together and not exactly conventional.
I will probably be participating in 1/2 price chocolate day though!
Me-29,Two boys, 10 and 8
It will all be ok in the end. If it's not ok, it's not the end
Happily remarried to a wonderful man (Aussie). I think I found the right guy and the right finger this time.
Posts: 4485 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: Indiana
Member # 32558
| Posted: 1:43 PM, February 10th (Monday), 2014|
It's a pretty annoying event, in my humble opinion.
No big deal for me - was with the ex for 20 years, I can't remember a single romantic thing he ever did! Oh maybe when he got me pregnant…I think he kissed me, lol…
I've promised myself to either be on my own, or be with someone who loves me truly! Valentine's day should be every day in a healthy relationship.
"Sometimes on the way to the dream, you get a lost and find a better one"
Divorcing - at last!
Posts: 94 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: Uk
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