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User Topic: Stupid things the npdstbxw says
brokenfyrman
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Default  Posted: 2:14 PM, February 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I so want to post this on my Facebook, the kids would see it is the only reason I haven't... Yet. So she should have left after her first affair but stayed 21 years because we would have great kids..??????

Wonderful and yet confusing quotes of the day from "Happy Valley"...

I should have left the first time I thought about leaving but then I wouldn't have my boys, they would never be born because you and I wouldn't of been together in the first place


Me BS 42, STBX 40 renamed numero cinco
OM#2 puppylove from HS
EA 10/07 thru 5/08
PA 5/12,13,14 and 7/26 of 08
Admitted to calls/email texts 08/08, TT until D/Day 10/10
OM#1, 9 mos after "I do"
She walked out on me and her kids 1/1/14 (

Posts: 314 | Registered: Apr 2011
BAB61
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Member # 41181
Default  Posted: 2:18 PM, February 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

omg, just omg ... I think my STBX has the same idea .. 23 years and I really think it was just because he wanted kids. wtf? seriously f*cked up!

(((brokenfyrman)))


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
RealityStinks
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Default  Posted: 2:18 PM, February 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Things she's said:
OM cares about us (me and WW) and wants us to work out. He's very sorry about all of this.

Heard that a couple of times. Was that before or after they spent the afternoon at an Inn together?


I'm sorry, I never meant to hurt you.

Actions speak louder than words.

[This message edited by RealityStinks at 2:19 PM, February 10th (Monday)]


Posts: 414 | Registered: Nov 2013
Gemini71
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Default  Posted: 2:44 PM, February 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW and I were worried about you.

So glad I could bring them together.


Edited to correct stupid typos.

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.


Posts: 1647 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
newlysingle
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Default  Posted: 2:50 PM, February 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry. She's a bitch. My XWH has sent me similar doozies.


"OW really cares about our children and wants what's best for them".

I guess what was best for them was blowing up their family.

[This message edited by newlysingle at 2:52 PM, February 10th (Monday)]


BW - Me (37)
XWH - (37) The Gnat
OW - Some dumb whore he picked up in another state and moved here here. Known as Hello Kitty.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (5), 1 DS (1 year)
Dday 3/13
Divorced 9/20/13

Posts: 878 | Registered: Mar 2013
Dreamboat
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Default  Posted: 4:07 PM, February 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"OW misses your hugs"

That was a really long time ago. I think I told X that she can go fuck herself or something along those lines


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

Posts: 17606 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: A better place :)
brokenfyrman
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Default  Posted: 4:13 PM, February 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love you
I am sorry
I promise

All have eight letter in them

Then again... So does..
Bullshit


Me BS 42, STBX 40 renamed numero cinco
OM#2 puppylove from HS
EA 10/07 thru 5/08
PA 5/12,13,14 and 7/26 of 08
Admitted to calls/email texts 08/08, TT until D/Day 10/10
OM#1, 9 mos after "I do"
She walked out on me and her kids 1/1/14 (

Posts: 314 | Registered: Apr 2011
sage2004
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Default  Posted: 4:43 PM, February 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My all time dumb things my STBXWH says about affairs:
'It was not my intent to hurt you'

Oh so this was to make me feel special, secure, happy??

And the worst...

"I chose you not them"

Wow I'm the winner! I got the cheating lying selfish scum, I feel so lucky.


BS ME (38)
WH (48)

WH had 2 affairs in first year of marriage


Posts: 224 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Georgia
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 5:09 PM, February 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was told that xpos is borderline npd. When I read these, I think *more* than just borderline.


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2253 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
brokenfyrman
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Default  Posted: 12:25 AM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So add to my original post a huge fight about splitting the tax bill for our sons vehicle that she misplaced on her desk that cost an extra unexpected $100 today that I just had to cover and quite a few extra attempts to demoralize me, put me down, trying to take jabs at my manhood and a snide comment about me being a Marine,

Oh c'mon fyrman you are a fighting machine a wonderfully trained Marine

Yet constantly posts how big a military supporter she is.. She supports some alright dropping panties for her Army boyfriend.. Whatever
Anyway I got a message later in the evening about "can't we maybe meet and talk" not for us but "for the boys". The oldest told her today that his brother was pissed that she hadn't seen him in three weeks even after surgery. Now she wants to take me up on the offer I gave her before surgery to "stop by and see him"... "Being away from them is the hardest thing I have ever done and I can't stand it" WTF???!?!!! She hasn't made any attempt to come get him nothing, always have to work around her schedule which really makes him hot. She got a shot of the truth from one of the boys and it shocked the hell out of her that I haven't been lying. She on then other hand lies with every syllable that passes her lips. I bet I have said some sort of the word lie 50 times today to all the bullshit she has thrown. I told her she had a black heart at some point.. "I don't have a black heart, I have a big heart.." Oh well my answer to her requests....

A resounding NO!!! I don't want to see you, look at you, talk to you... nothing.... Leave me alone. Jesus will January ever get here?


Me BS 42, STBX 40 renamed numero cinco
OM#2 puppylove from HS
EA 10/07 thru 5/08
PA 5/12,13,14 and 7/26 of 08
Admitted to calls/email texts 08/08, TT until D/Day 10/10
OM#1, 9 mos after "I do"
She walked out on me and her kids 1/1/14 (

Posts: 314 | Registered: Apr 2011
bigskyblues
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Default  Posted: 4:02 AM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

DD#2 I checked her underground cell phone and found a message from one of her many OM's. It was a masturbation video, with a text "good morning beautiful." When I confronted her she told me he must of sent it to her by mistake. Of course then I had to ask her why did you reply "I am so glad I do that for You."

Pathetic, I knew it was over and filed for D.

BSB


BH 50s
xWW 50s

Dday1 7-2012
Dday2 8-2012
Divorce 9-2012

4 kids all adults.

Married 22+ years.

I have moved on and life is good!


Posts: 191 | Registered: Sep 2012
MadeOfScars
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Default  Posted: 11:13 AM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A few of my favorites from my stbxw:

My infidelity only occurred within the last 3 months. The rest of our 11 years I was unwavering faithful.

Gee, thanks. So, you mostly didn't cheat on me. I NEVER strayed.

It [the A] didn't mean anything and its over. I'm not leaving to be with anyone. I just have this overwhelming need to be alone.

Again, that's supposed to make me feel better? You want to be alone, so you cheat on me just to hurt me further or what?

I really hope some day we can talk again regularly. This isn't goodbye, just goodbye for now

My interpretation: "There's a big part of me that knows I'm going to regret this, so I hope you'll still be around just in case."

Heh, don't count on it.


"Let me not beg for the stilling of my pain, but for the heart to conquer it. ― Rabindranath Tagore

Posts: 965 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Texas
Abbondad
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Default  Posted: 11:45 AM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Her: "I still think that even after the divorce we will get back together."

Me: "Yeah, well, I gotta tell you--it's not going to happen. I am moving on."

Her: (Bursts into tears, stands up and stalks out) "Then I am moving on too!!!"

Uh, YOU ALREADY MOVED ON; THAT'S WHY I'M FUCKING DIVORCING YOU, IDIOT!


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


Posts: 1586 | Registered: Dec 2012
BAB61
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Default  Posted: 1:04 PM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

lol Abbondad - love that .. um ... yeah!!!

Some of the things on this thread are sooo sad ... they are such misguided poor pathetic excuses of humanity ... but seriously? They think there might be a chance for R?? Really ... try being remorseful, try being honest, try being real, try to remember you said vows ... ugh


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 2:40 PM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Her: "I still think that even after the divorce we will get back together."
Translation - You'll let me use you after we D for favors and ego kibbles, right?


xBH
D final 8/2012

Posts: 3724 | Registered: May 2012 | From: southeast
honesttoafault
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Default  Posted: 8:59 PM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WH told me today he wants to be separated. He says to me:

"I don't want to be your love slave anymore!"

I almost laughed in his face.

From a NPD this just means it was an effort to be nice and "ACTING" loving I guess.


Posts: 1939 | Registered: Jan 2010
brokenfyrman
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Default  Posted: 2:13 AM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh my god Soulhurt I heard two of those recently..
There's no one else I just need to be alone and maybe we could go somewhere to sit down and talk, not now but soon. WTF????!!!!!????

Anyway new nugget for this, I sent her an email with the copy of a bill I had to pay that she ignored from February of last year and I got no response. Later I asked if she got it and here is her response...

Oh I don't use that email anymore, the old computer has access to it so I created a new one
.

I immediately responded.. So this is that secret email I asked if you had weeks ago huh? And when were you going to tell me since I have to send you copies of bills/receipts???

Oh no I just made this one because the old computer had my email on it and it's my email none of your business.

RIIIGHT!!! Because changing your password wouldn't prevent the old email from logging on???? I'm not an idiot, I wasn't born yesterday. Truth always has a way of seeping out from the darkness doesn't it? I told her weeks ago my gut said that there was a secret email and someone else, ruby44 posted that she felt so too based on one of my posts before I put it on here. Next up admission that she has seen OM#2 or was involved with triathlon Timmy or another old boyfriend from back home OR someone here local... I hate a damn liar


Me BS 42, STBX 40 renamed numero cinco
OM#2 puppylove from HS
EA 10/07 thru 5/08
PA 5/12,13,14 and 7/26 of 08
Admitted to calls/email texts 08/08, TT until D/Day 10/10
OM#1, 9 mos after "I do"
She walked out on me and her kids 1/1/14 (

Posts: 314 | Registered: Apr 2011
stronger08
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Default  Posted: 4:05 AM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My two favorites out of the hundreds of nonsensical things my XW said during her A. Keep in mind we were just out of D-day.

Its none of your business who I date
Well it kind of is, as your my W.

When asked if she had any sort of guilt for what she had done to the OM family:

The condition of his M is none of my concern, I had nothing to do with that.
Well you dumb Bitch you do because your fucking her H and those children's father.



You cant eat soup with chopsticks.

Posts: 5604 | Registered: Nov 2007
Helen of Troy
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Default  Posted: 7:06 AM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I filed for divorce.
I filed for and was granted an RO shortly afterward.
He convinces OW#544 and even said in front of a judge at the RO hearing that *I* "can't get over him and want him back" what type of f'ed up crap is that? UM NO WAY! NOT IN A MILLION YEARS!!
He is the stuff nightmares are made of.
If he were the last man on earth I would go join the other team he's so disgusting!

Right after divorce he said he didn't want to end the marriage because he "would feel bad" yet had no qualms about cheating with other women? Yeah like that makes a whole lot of sense.


Posts: 4693 | Registered: Dec 2009
SurelyNOT
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Default  Posted: 12:09 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My idiot ex said "I don't deserve to be treated like this" and he doesn't understand why everyone is getting on his case for his behaviour, his lies, betrayal, etc. So he quit his job - very wise move - he is illegally in this country. He has also said "why is everyone so one-sided?" Actually, he has uttered a lot of gems like this, I could write a book.

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